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I Don't Have a Script

People often tell me:

“Peggy, I don't know what you're talking about.”

Sometimes they even tell me:

“I don't understand English.”

And sometimes:

“I don't even understand what I'm going through.”

But then they say something very interesting:

“I feel very comfortable when I come into your room, and I stay.”

That is why I want to explain this in Cantonese and Mandarin too, because many people who come into my room speak Mandarin or Cantonese. English is simply the common language we use every day.

We have become so used to Zoom meetings, Malaysian English is practically number one. And now Mandarin is becoming another common language in our daily communication.

So I said it in Cantonese:

很多人同我講，Peggy，我都唔知你講乜，有時我自己都亂緊，但係我一入咗你個房，你的 TikTok room，我就覺得好舒服。

所以我會開始，明白唔明白，係覺得你自己會明白我。

Then I said it in Mandarin as well:

很多人跟我講，Peggy，我都不知道你講什麼，因為你講英文，我的英文又不好。可是我進了你的 TikTok 房，我就覺得感覺非常舒服。

這個就是代表你的潛意識明白。

因為很多東西是潛意識的。

我學來的了解就是，潛意識有它自己的語言。

你不需要知道那個英語的感覺。

有時你進了這個房間，你就會有那個感覺。

And that is exactly what I am trying to explain.

I am not going to prove whether this is scientifically true or not.

I am simply sharing how I understand it through my own experience and through what I have learned in NLP.

The unconscious mind can capture things that are foreign to you, and over time, you adapt to them.

It is a little bit like when I first started using fake eyelashes.

For the first few days, I looked like a cat coming out of a drain!

But now I just put them on, adjust them, and they look perfectly fine.

So sometimes language is like that too.

Your unconscious mind knows how to learn.

It knows how to adapt.

You may not consciously understand everything, but something inside you may still be registering the experience.

And sometimes that is why people come into my room even when they are uncomfortable, anxious or simply having a difficult day.

They don't necessarily understand every word.

But they feel something.

And I don't think it is only because of me.

There are many people doing this kind of work.

Anybody who enters this room contributes something to the atmosphere of the room.

Everybody contributes to the frequency and vibration of the universe in their own way.

And if you want to know more about frequency and vibration, Google it.

Ask ChatGPT.

Ask AI in English, Malay, Arabic, Cantonese or whatever language you understand best.

There is plenty of information available.

I am not a scientist.

I cannot explain everything scientifically.

I am simply sharing my life as I live it, and how I bring my life experience into my work as a coach.

That is what I do.

I am being human, and I am being a coach.

And yes, I know that normally I don't talk this much in the morning.

But these two days, I have had a lot of thoughts.

So I just speak.

Those of you who come regularly already know that I don't have a script.

I have keywords.

Especially for my Monday 5 p.m. and Friday 5 p.m. sessions.

I have keywords.

And then I go.

Tomorrow, I have something on, but I am pushing forward to get the 5 p.m. Live done.

So if you're still here and willing, join me tomorrow at 5 p.m.

And help me by sharing, liking and commenting.

Those are the three things TikTok will reward me for.

So I hope you can at least help me in that way.

Thank you very much.

You are so lovely.

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Footnote: 130826 TikTok live transcript- with help of Chatgpt in presenting this in a blog manner.

#peggyang57 #awakeningyourworth #innerdialogue #coachingculture #bazireader #oraclecards #transformation #change #mindser #carljung #stoicism #emotion #energyvampire #tiktokliveworld

Trusting - the one person. Myself.

 

Peggy – The Person

I love dancing, travelling, food, beauty, reflections, and singing.

These are not distractions from my work. They are part of who I am.

Coaching is something I do.

Peggy is who I am.

I believe growth comes through your own effort. My role as an Inner Dialogue Coach is to provide a space and a method for you to discover your own answers. No lasting growth can happen simply because of the coach. It happens because you choose to walk the journey.

People often ask me why I coach the way I do.

The answer is simple.

Before becoming an Inner Dialogue Coach, I spent years searching.

I attended countless courses, travelled to many places, and invested far more than I could comfortably afford. None of those courses were within my budget. There came a point when I told one of my closest friends that I could no longer afford to keep chasing another programme, another certification, or another promise of transformation.

There was a period when I was completely lost.

I questioned my decision to leave a stable management career for the uncertainty of coaching.

Looking back, I realised I had fallen into my own trap.

I believed that more knowledge would give me more value.

I believed another certificate would make me a better coach.

Ironically, I was not progressing.

My real progress only began when I became my own "7K" (7th Killing). I stopped running from my shadows and began facing them honestly. That was the beginning of unmasking myself.

For this, I remain deeply grateful to every teacher who crossed my path: 蔡明夏老师, Adrian Lee, Jessie Lee, Terrence Jiam, the Vipassana Society, and everyone whose lives touched mine through what I simply call the frequency of the universe.

I fell many times.

Each time I stood up, I stood a little stronger.

The journey has never been easy, but it has been deeply rewarding.

I absorbed every lesson with gratitude. Some practices became part of my life. Others I respectfully let go. Yet every experience became an anchor that shaped who I am today.

People often ask whether I think I am right.

Perhaps I would rather be wrong.

Because being wrong allows me to remain curious.

One observation has stayed with me.

Knowing everything can become one of the heaviest responsibilities we carry.

When we become too attached to what we know, we quietly lose the freedom to learn. Our unconscious mind is no longer allowed to explore because it is already convinced it has the answer.

Sometimes, those who know the most spend so much time sharing their expertise that they slowly forget who they really are.

Have you ever found yourself there?

I may not fully understand your pain.

But I understand the journey of searching.

Because I have walked that path myself.

And for many years, despite everything I knew, I was not truly progressing.

Today, I continue walking a different path.

One that is quieter.

One that invites reflection.

One that encourages awareness before reaction.

If you are ready to discover your own worth, I welcome you to walk alongside me.

Finally, keep walking your path with clarity.

Among the many tools I have learned, Inner Dialogue remains the one I return to most often.

It has taught me to trust my own voice before seeking the voices of others.

One sentence continues to stay with me:

Opportunity favours the prepared, but success belongs to those who take action. Seize every opportunity that comes your way.

机会是留给有准备的人，
但成功是留给已经行动的人。
把握好每一个在你面前的机会！

#AwakeningYourWorth #InnerDialogue

#MasterYourMind #SelfAwarenessJourney

#YouAreTheCreator #MindsetShift

#HealingInProgress #BecomingYou

#ConsciousLiving #EnergyAlignment

#RealGrowth #EvolveDaily#flavouroflife

#awakeningyourworth

#masteringourdestiny

#umattermost

#innerdialogue

I am Peggy Ang

An Inner Dialogue Coach focus on awakening your worth.

I help you to trust your own voice.

Friendship

 I have the opportunity of residing in a lovely neighborhood. When I first shifted here, everyone is young and having young children. After 20 odd years, the children are now all adults. Cars for each family began to increase and the parking space became scarce. If you have four children, then you have min 5 cars. One house can take in at most 4 cars. Another car will be at the road side. Each house share one lot, macam ni matilah. Good neighbors is every important. 

Now, what will be your solutions.

1. Don't buy car?

2. Share parking lots or fight one?

3 car pool?

*This was done but not successful. Let's hope after pandemic it will be successful because more people WFH.

The other alternative is to engage a company that can install double decker parking bays. This will increase the parking bays for each house to at least 4 if you are living in a smaller house and 8 if you are living in a bigger house.

If this can be done in bulk then the price will be super cool right? But what will our government initiatives on this or are they really concern to help.

mmmmmmmmmm.................................... no answer yet.