Time is precious

Time is so precious that I am enjoying the simple breeze and the smell of living. This pandemic have throw many challenges to me but I am am grateful for the little thing that I can grasp on. Living is having the pain and joy in learning. I have been taking a lot of webinars. In every one of this webinar, I learn a lot. I just need to think what will it do if we are to use these tools for my business or my life. There are a lot of people selling after each webinars and this is something they need to do to survive. Keep offering free webinars will not be beneficial for them in long run because time is essence of income. How can this new norm be transformed into opportunity for me? One thing for sure, I am blessed to have a family and a home of comfort. Thereafter, I can afford my expenses and life that I wanted. I have a beautiful daughter and partner. A mom who is 84 and counting = playing all the time when she don't throw tantrum. Other than that everyone is healthy and happy. What else can be more than what I have. However, being a human being I still seek for a different. I want to work for a company who have a range of development prepare for 10 years or more. In this , I want to be the one  their team to coach the team towards this goal. It is going to be very fruitful journey for everyone. Hope that I can be engage for this so that it add flavour to everyone's life when they are working for this company. It is without doubt the successful journey belongs to this one.

WISH ME LUCK.

Why build a coaching culture?

Everyone can do something.

Looking at this interestingly. Everything that can go wrong, will go wrong anyway. Let's learn to live with this iconic Coronavirus. Malaysian are advice to practice the 3 W 

Warn - Stay alert to all KKM notices

Wear - Wear mask at all time whenever you are outside

Wash - Wash your hands, singing happy birthday twice. It's gonna be good to be happy.

Based on my observation ,most business owners was busy chasing after businesses which leave little time for them to jump on innovation. Really wonderful people and some are slowly learning the robes in the best way they could. It's saddening to see them struggling to stay a float after nearly a decade in the business. Just some insight on what I do my best to assist in this area which brings me back to the present. I am managing this company as the capacity of General manager. We are traditionally famous with series  and targeted biz travel groups. Our ebiz was only initiated late last year. We have not even manage to launch our website since the hotels and other resources are all lock down. Will all the businesses survive if we do not change? I personally do not discourage people from not wanting to learn but it is really sad that they think they can survive being that way. Maybe this pandemic manage to jerk them out of this lala land that it's just a dream. If a person do not want to change, then do not need to worry about it. I believe they are doing it very happily. Let them be and help those we need the help or guidance that is needed. What can everyone do - LEARN AT THINGS YOU GOOD AT and share experience for a better Malaysia.

I am attending a webinar series hosted by a bank and they are really in trouble. They whole presentation is not working and the line is really bad. I retrack back what I said, even those with technology support cannot conduct a good webinars. Haiz!!!!

Miracle of life

When you are born into a rich family that turned poor during your childhood days, life becomes extremely hard. I have good parents but my dad was being "spoiled" by my grandparents that he are not able to face the fact for many years. Luckily, my mom took it upon herself to bring us up by being a tailor. She have to work day and night without stopping. At that time, the workmanship of a men's shirt is only MYR2.50. My eldest sister also helped a lot. She did not continue with her education even though she is a very good student. She have come out to work and help my mom in supporting our family. When I was 10 years old, my youngest sister were born. Cute bubbly little baby girl who have now a very successful lady. During this time, my mom took up a stall at the Melaka Bus Station. My eldest sister diligently help her out without complaints. She is one of the elite lady born into a poor family. If not, she would have been a fashion icon now. She can really draw and design clothes. I hope she will take it up as a hobby now that she is LOL. My mom have to make sure we have enough to eat and once or twice a year we will have a sumptuous meal. My mom is a good cook in her own way. In the environment of nothingness we grew up. Despite all this difficulty, our family always have high regards of cultural values. We are make to greet our elders, respect their decision(s) and always polite in our way. This is partly the success story of our family. To cut the story short, I grew up with a vision that I must be able to afford things that I wanted and I will no longer face this kind of hardship. I make a vow that when I completed my Form 5 at the age of 18, I will make my own money. And I am glad to say from that day onwards, I have not taken a cent from my parents. I helped to finance my family by working. I worked hard but not so smart. My first job was at a optical shop. I have a good boss who took good care of me. Then I move on to be a waitress in a restaurant. The things got ugly here because there are two bosses, they are never agreeing with each other. Both are married men without ethics. One nearly raped me and that's when I decided I have to get out of this life. Somehow I did. Thank God for showing me the way. From there, I manage to get a job with then the Renaissance Melaka. At that time, hotel reputation is very shady but I manage to convince my parents that it is changing. This is where my entrance to hospitality started.
Till now, I still believe this is a miracle to be here today.
To be continue.

Do you understand Karma?

I had an interesting night before. Listening to Sadhguru youtube always keep me awake till the wee hours of the morning. He said " Every idea, every thought, every emotion, every value that you have -is picked up from somewhere and it rules you from within". Suddenly it hit me. Let me ask you something if you are the believer of Karma. How often you blame karma for all the bad things that happened to you and what is the frequency of you thankful for the good things that karma bring? I am guilty of this. Whenever something good happen then I said I must be lucky or the lucky star just shine on me. But karma will always be the blame for anything that happened to be wrong or bad. Am I looking for a reason to shift this blame from me to something else? If knowing karma can help me to change for the better then I would be without pain or learning. It is not that I am sadist enough to embrace pain but when you have to cross the path, you just have to do it. Each experiences left me with something. It is again, a choice. A choice of whether I want to think it a problem or a solution. Humanity have been hypnotizing us into a creature of negativity. If anything is being bring up front for discussion, the first impulse is always the negative one. I am really blessed that I have manage to discard some of these kind of feeling, I still have to work hard in ensuring the my inner self is strong and positive. This is why Sadhguru's statement me hit me at the right place. I am what I draw out from within. I cannot blame God, the government , the friends, colleagues etc for my failure to discipline my thoughts. I must be my own creation of success.  I must be the one who take the first steps into realisation of the inner core value within me. Only by doing this I can leap into the future with a drive of positivity. Many times, I think people are wrong just because I want to be right. In our culture , being right is so important because it is also a status. A silly notion but what you are born into, you do not have control over. I can only change how I want to be by accepting and moving on as an individual that believe everything have a reason for it's birth in front of me. I just need to exhale and then the positivity will come. Do you think it is so easy? hahaha!!! No such miracle. Everyday is a battle of feelings with myself. Luckily, I master the coaching philosophy, the 9 masteries in coaching. With a clearer vision and by coaching people, this action of realisation is faster and it is also a tools to help my coachees. If I have not experience all this before, I will be just a coach doing things because of what I have been taught. The zombie coach. This is not the reason I took up coaching. I am in it for the betterment of everyone within and out of my network. This is also why I am human first before I am a coach. We are gifted with 5 senses and many different feelings. If  I have not went thru all the thick and thin, I will definately be a bad coach. I want to leave a legacy that my coachees will always achieve their dream life. If you are keen to be coach or if you think that I can be a coach for someone, drop me a line at 4ms@coacheecoach.com

Me towards future- The new norm.

Blogging is something which I like but unable to really cement on it. This is due to the limitation of my ability to express in English. I came from a Convent school and the only English I have is just the conversation with my classmates and the nuns. Therefore, grammar is such a challenge for me. This is also part of the reason I did not make an effort to push myself years back. I feel that I do not have the money, the talent, the smartness etc to do it. Only recently I notice that it is all because of my mindset. Is it too late for me? I woke up to the fact that I am in this situation because I cannot change if I do not want to face the pain. All changes are painful for it to be successful. What is it that will allowed or force me to overcome this pain? I am typing this while listening to Vishen Lakhiani.  He is sharing his past experience and what have helped him to be successful today.  He have also helped me to see that in order to succeed, there is a need for me to pin down my abilities and needs. Practice makes perfect is a myth. Perfect practice makes perfect. He is promoting a tools using Silva Ultramind to transform your life to reality. There are some new learning by hearing him teaching on one part of his course " Mastering Altered States for Problem Solving & Performance".  There are 4 stages of mind wave.  His introduction is interestingly new to me. He put a sound that represent Beta and Alpha. Visualization is very beneficial to future when you are very sure what you want and how much you want to contribute towards this. I am a person who immersed and soak into anything that can give me some kind of peace of know the direction. There are many gurus out there and to know which is going to help me is a big headache. I will use the technique that Vishen taught in his free lesson to find my answer.

How many of you are in the same situation as me. I am passionate about helping people by coaching them. As of now, I am a very new coach and the culture of being coach is such big barrier. People are not use to open up and without this, it is really not effective for coaching. But I am sure, with the right methods they will be embracing coaching wholeheartedly. I am sure , I will be able to get the reach the result of having 20 coachees per month by end of 2021. In the same time, I will also be able to promote tourism with coaching result. By coaching, I wish to see my coachees achieve their dreams life because they know what they are living for. Wishing me luck in finding these coachees.