There is always a story to tell.

 Have you ever come across an incident that you could not get over the fact that someone can do it better than you? Now be honest. I do. That was when I acted as all humans do. Now I paused a while and then shifted my view from why to what. Yes. Seek my monkey mind and then process it to the situation. Every conversation always comes clean to deliver a message or share an idea. Simple right? Now, what makes it into an argument or disagreement?

There are an estimated 60,000-80,000 thoughts per day. Wow!!! We are all such impressive machines. But how many people put those ideas into action and how many people The monkey mind silencer is what everyone can have. Therefore, what makes it so difficult to do so. I know it is something the owner of the thoughts can take control of because I have tested this. Am I perfect then? My kakak (sister) shared an article The Leaking bucket which I reflected that I am not perfect. I must also change so that the whole environment change. This process will need to break a lot of habits and beliefs. And I have started. Tame my monkey mind have made me see my fault clearer and save myself about 50,000 useless thoughts and empower my energy to useful thoughts. Build my persona confidently.

How I do it? In getting clarity that I need someone to share my ideas with pop up frequently as I dive deeper into internal solution. I need someone who I trusted and listen without judgement. Initially, I engaged a coach for this tame my monkey mind process. Then I started to coach which allow me to concentrate on my participants with full anticipation due to my experience. This process not only help my participant in finding clarity, it did not give me time to procrastinate. IAC 9 Masteries have a series of questioning that as a coach I have to utilize. From a participant (coachee), the journey can only grow to be more effective. In helping others to discover their goals in taming the monkey mind, I also help them to empower themselves coachee/participants and have less time for myself. 

My passion now is concentrated towards helping students and graduate by coaching them to address the issue of taming the monkey mind. The next is helping them to discover their pure value and achieve their goal in the career path. 

Want to share your story with me? Many people will not know how to deal with the reality as culture face rejection as failure. Let's change the culture together and let you tell your story with confident. Be the person that you wanted to be when you leave school and meet the world with full confidence and dreams. You should never lick your wound alone. I have done that so I am here for you.

The art of saying NO.

 This is a very interesting topic. When I started to work, I am without any good certification except an average grade in SPM. For those who are not familiar with Malaysia’s education during my era let me give you a brief on this. It is compulsory for all children of age 7 to start education for six years primary and five years secondary. We complete our education at the age of 17 years old. After that some will leave for overseas to further their study while others will stay back in the local university. It was a costly expenditure for most family at that time. The last year which is also the Form Five year, it is compulsory to sit for a life time opportunity exam namely SPM. If you score then maybe you can get scholarship from private firm or our government.

I was an average student and have never really known the reason to study hard. Working seems to be the only alternative I have. I have made a vow that I will not use any money from my family when I graduated at the age of 17 years old. I have kept that promise till now and maybe because of that I never say NO to opportunity to work. I will do any job as long as it is legal and will give me a chance to grow.  Without a solid education background, I have limited choices. The only choice I have is keep saying yes to all the work which I do not enjoy but can help me to survive. I even worked over time to get extra money even if it is just a little extra. Thankfully I was energetic and healthy which bosses like because I never take Medical Leave. I took the advantage to say YES to any task that is new to me or in any area within my job scope. It helped me in getting the knowledge I wanted and the promotion I needed. My gratitude to all those who have given me guidance and patient in teaching me.

My first breakthrough came when I was employed by Ramada Renaissance Melaka. The first five-star hotel then. I was employed as a waitress and was extremely lucky that on the first day of work, I was “promoted” to Front Office Cashier. From there, I learned everything I could again by saying yes to all opportunities. The management of the hotel is extremely generous, they will always pay me over time for doing the extra work. Within a short span of time, I learned enough to be promoted to Chief cashier at the age of 19.  I have been informed by my ex-colleague that I remain the youngest chief cashier they have. I stand to be corrected because the hotel wind down business during the pandemic. Such a beautiful place with beautiful team. So sad to know but I am blessed to have a part of them with me in my memory.

Now after my story, you must be thinking what is this link between the story and the topic. I was battling with the same question on how to say NO when I have been saying YES, all this time.  I was addressing a conversation with someone on this topic. It prompted me to rethink about what and when to say YES to something should be NO to another. As you might know now, I gain all my experience through working hard and saying YES to tasks that seems impossible to me but it is all towards the development of my department and my job. Therefore, it is the right thing to do and appropriate action in this matter.

Most probably this is the reason many people do not know how to say NO. They might think that by saying NO is not expected and they lost the chance to grow. However, if the request is taking up your time and you failed to complete your goals then saying NO is the only way to survive. Business is always business, if you go out of your way to help someone without paying attention to the task in hand, this is irresponsible act. Your act of compassion might also be creating trouble for your career. Think about this.

There are a few types of people who likes to ask for help and I just use a few I know. I learned to say NO to these categories of people and I find that by saying NO, I am saying YES to many outcomes.

1.     People who do not know what they are doing.My answer of NO is usually accompanied by a suggestion or a recommendation for them to search for answer. I will keep a look out for their next question because they are asking for clarity instead of just finishing a task.

2.    People who are lazy.I have to evaluate this kind of person for at least three times because I say NO. This is to give them a chance to learn that nobody is at their disposal. The rest is up to them to decide or look for another victim.

3.    People who are bossy. At my present position, I can just say NO right? But it is good to keep a relationship with this kind of character because they made me see who I do not want to be. I will be very innovative in my NO and yet the friendship remains mutual. This is where the art of communication will slide in.

Let’s have some thoughts going here. What kind of situation will you address and how do your maneuvers yourself out of the sticky situation when you need to say NO but still respected by this answer? 

Mindset Beauty

 When I first arrived in Groningen for spending valuable time with my daughter, I did not have any expectation. I learned through self coaching, acceptance of the moment is the most valuable assets I have. Everything becomes a new experience.

Departure gate in KLIA was such a sorry situation. A beautiful gigantic peaceful airport suddenly become a grave yard of emotion. To add damage to situation, my departure time is midnight which added the sense of nostalgia seeing this beauty turns into such a painful for experience. Everything is closed and I kept wondering when our glory will come back. When will people start to travel and start to invest in Malaysia? I hope there is going to be a huge wake up calls to ensure we get back our pride and joy revitalizing Malaysia together as a nation who care for our country.

The experience of arriving into DOHA airport is a total different atmosphere. Everywhere is full of people and bustling with live. This is helping the situation in the pandemic because people just observe SOP and live their life to the fullest.

Upon arrival into Groningen, everything went smoothly. I believe they trust the individual with their own health. Even with Corona Virus, they are still living their life as usual and enjoy the time of being with the community. Each are responsible for their own safety and health. It is a good policy. Nobody can force you to take care of yourself if the depression is outcome of the regulation. They are happy people having very strong mindset of getting healthy. Except in compliance to the regulations, people here just have happiness healthy juice as their daily vitamin. Cycling around in the township with fresh air is enough to boost their energy and live in peace with the virus.

I hope that everyone I know will take responsibility of living to their best and live with the virus in harmony. One thing for sure - Corona Virus is staying. The question is, are you finishing your life or starting your life with this pandemic?

Self Respect.

 I was writing on two other topics and decided to abandon that when this pop up. Monkey mind does have it's advantage when you tame it towards a certain direction. Mine is starting to bloom in ways that I will call this as focus.

In my daily life, there are many expectation. In a recent movie, I am again put into a spot where women have to choose career or family. Family, meaning the full fledge wife and mother with no room for career. These women can work as long as they are home for their children until a day they all grown up and leave home. In some companies they do not encourage pregnancy. They have many ways of doing it because it is still legally right to place a women into cold storage when she cannot travel for business. Do you think in this era there should be more understanding towards the women caught in this kind of dilemma?

Now, hold your horses and don't bite me yet. I am just thinking what can women in this kind of situation do. I am not advocating that we go full storm into protest. It is indeed a 360 degree support that is needed. The family have to contribute towards taking care of the children if the mother are being benchmark for a career path that she wanted. The company, though it is not unreasonable do you think they can at least make some adjustment on traveling arrangements?

I am lucky because I put my life on hold when I had my daughter. I love every moment of it although it can be very difficult at times. I do have the flexibility and support from my family but as a mother, I am fully concentrated on making sure I have every moment with her. Well! 90% of the moment is good enough since life was tough and I need to make a living. I will call myself blessed because from the day that she is conceived, I am always happy. I talked and have discussions with her during the pregnancy that I build the habit of self talk. After she was born, I keep practicing it even though I have weird expression when I do it in public. I just carry on as usual because I do not owe anyone anything. I know she will understand and as she grows, these practices proofed to be effective in her her an explanation to things that is new to her. I am glad I did that because after 21 years, she proof to have listened to all the sharing all those time. So, who says baby do not understand anything. She should have her key at 21 but I have not lock the door since the day she was born. She have her own wisdom and make her own choice. I trust her decision and she do not need the key. Counting down to celebrate my daughter's birthday is the greatest gift ever.

I am not sure how many of you have the same experience whether as a mom or dad or even family members who practices what I did. I must say, the best suffering that is sweetest for me is having the time to see her grow into someone she wants to be.

I wishes all parents have the best of their children time when they are growing up. There are no same moment. You only have that one moment every time.

Therefore, please get back your self respect if you are not treated properly for being a mother or a father during your children growing up phase. You deserve the honor. Salute to all parents.

Decisions.

 This is needed every second of the day. From the time you wake up to the time you go to bed. Interestingly, it can also be frustrating as well as motivating.

What could be the reason for this? For me it is because there are too many choices I used to be extremely busy and every decision make based on the time I have to spend on each task or thoughts. When I took a career break and decided to embark on coaching, these decision making should be easier right? That’s what I thought too. But it is definitely untrue.

I always assigned time for my participants for coaching first before I decide on making other arrangements. However, this can sometime be difficult too. When a participant has some emergency, I am left with a void. Now what should I do? I used to just take another coffee break or start to snacking until the next session. Good decision? Not really. This is because the time I spend preparing myself for the coaching session is not fruitful at all. As a coach, I can only prepare myself mentally to face anything that comes from my participants. I must be 100% present without any other interruptions thoughts in order to effectively hold a successful session with my participant. I do not have a questionnaire ready because the agenda of coaching belongs to my participants too. Now, what you think I should do? I love to hear your opinion. On the other hand, I never push my participants on any timing that is not suitable for them. I need them to be ready for this special moment of discovering themselves. The outcome is always rewarding when they are in this environment during coaching. I am not sure how many of you have been in a coaching session that really give you a boost of energy that comes from within. I have experienced this as a coaching participant and I also have this result when I conduct coaching. To be honest not everyone is coachable. Sometimes, we just hit the wall due to reasons unknown to us but it again picks up momentum when I met them next. Therefore, to have a good coaching outcome I need to meet the participants prior to their first session. The biggest obstacles are when the participants cannot decide what they want from themselves. Make sense to you? It does make a lot of sense to me because I was there before I see it as a value which I need to make proactive decision.

If you want to improve your life, be prepare to face your own devil or devils. The journey will only be successful when you make this million-dollar decision worth your time and your coach’s time.

What makes me decide to put so much emphasis in encouraging a coaching culture? I used to live like no tomorrow but hitting no result. Nowadays, I can have so much freedom in life even with the little hiccup like decisions and appointments. Therefore, I know I am not perfect and I live each day with anticipation. Like one of my participants said “I will look forward to problems because it gives me motivation to look for solution”.

This video shared by @Jespuvan is really a good piece to listen to. https://youtu.be/c-4flnuxNV4

Hope you find what you are looking for. If not, keep looking. It is still waiting for you to explore.

What is Abundance?

 This is a question that some might ask. It is such a meaningful word that will only give purpose when it is fully understood. Therefore, what does abundance mean to you.

From my own point of view. It means that I have to be passionately reflecting on whatever is popping in my monkey mind. Not all learning flow in like a breeze, fresh and sweet. However, the spices of life is to appreciate the ability to see and listen to voices that are giving essence to growth. In fact, the worst scenario gives me the best lesson in life.

I learned to stop instance reaction at time of chaos. At time when people think they are giving you good advice which is truly appreciated. However, we all have our own life even though you might be in the same home or in the same environment. Learning to take proactive action of "Listen, evaluate and act."

It is not easy because most people think they know what is best for you. What makes me say this? Well! I was the same before I embark on the coaching journey. I think that if I do all that I think good and teach the other person what is meaning of life, I will have save them. Oh ! I was so arrogant right?

To help people to grow, I must be a good coach. The purpose of enlightenment is to realise that I am human. I am able to coach people in a way that they also realised that they are human with richness in thoughts and feeling. That they have their own thoughts and they have their own values. In expressing these, they do not need to combat with what is right or wrong. They just need to understand that there are no two persons that is a perfect fit. Even identical twins have different characteristic.

So,who you want to be? When the word abundance is thrown around in conversation,I like you to ask 3 second soul questions. Just find the answer whether it is as verb or a noun to you.

My abundance is simple but not easy. In my abundance, I appreciate the value of others while learning to see the goodness in all actions. I extract what is reasonable and doable in any circumstances. Added to this is the processing of slicing my ego.Is that all? No, there are more because abundance is a journey for me. I will share as I write in my article.

I wish everyone find the answer to their abundance. Find your true North and be the best in being you.

Growing is easy

 Have you ever wonder how you become who you are now? But...... you might not dare to grow further? You want success but you don't want success. Who understand this?

I used to think that this kind of issues should only come from a nincompoop. Well! you are looking at one reformed nincompoop now. I was chasing success and comply to all the needs to be the best in my industry. Sacrifice everything to have this little glimpse of hope. When the opportunities came, I froze. I go into self doubts. I become scare of success. Funny right. But that is how exactly it is. The fear of being very successful is so unreal and I kept telling myself, I can do it. But something is still missing all the time. The heart of this success is missing.

In my chase for recognition , I forgot who I am. I forgot about the purpose of having a life that I love to live. I even forgot, what makes me work non stop chasing after perfection.

Then the discovery begin about 10 years ago. The time , I was lost and searching for answers. A dear friend introduced me to a meditation session and that's when the answers began to surface. When I started the course, I was very scare. I was thinking what if this and what if that. In some way, I was grateful that I did not see what I wanted to see - my inner self. How many of you have this kind of experience? You are so excited that you might find a goal mine inside you but you are having more doubts and fear.

Fast forward, I did what I need to do. Never stop learning and always find out which method is good for me. If you have read the articles I have written, you will understand where I am coming from. My English is so-so, my grammar - what's that but my heart is in the content. That's what I want to bring to you. The heart of everything. Being a coach really make me see things so clearly and I am in control of my life.

Like writing articles and blogs, I always feel that I am not good enough. Even now I still feel that way. This is because I am a human. But the beauty part of it is , I no longer let it be the obstacles towards doing things I love like sharing some photos or video with some contents in #cloudstory and writing articles. People will comments no matter how good you are. Just move out of the persona and be yourself. If you want to do anything, go ahead and give it a go. Life is waiting for you.

Tame your monkey mind and you will be the boss of your life. I am. Hope to see you becoming one. Dare to GROW!

Scary but worth it.

 Finally after months of lockdown, I can finally visit my daughter in Groningen, The Netherland.

Many people asked me, are you afraid of exploring the unknown? I used to fall into the trap of what other people think and what other people say. I now realised that many people think what they know and what they think is good for them should be good for me. Many things I will have done it if I have not been influenced by this stigma of reality which is still controlling many people of our society. How I let go of all this and just use the information shared as an exploration?

Coaching helps. The door of opportunity is never closed but most people allowed the monkey mind to play havoc to their decisions. What will happened if I did not take the advise of others? Will I failed faster or will I succeed? This remain a mystery because the past is just a reminder that I have a life worth exploring.

On many occasions, my clients (some of us address them as coachee but this word is still new in the coaching arena) asked me how I know where they are going in the coaching conversation? How I arrived to address their issues which they did not tell me in actual answers? How I helped them to open doors that they did not know existed?

Interesting right? It is indeed very interesting. This is the beauty of coaching profession. As coaches, we help clients to reach their destinations in a speed that they did not think possible. This is because many people do not even know that they have the capabilities to excel beyond themselves. They kept wondering why they did not see it before . Well! this is exactly how I excel in a speed which I find is the best solution to everyone.I am the recipient of coaching "miracle" which I managed to achieve within these two years just simply by being a good coach. A good listener and an ardent fan of my client's success.

One of my client asked me whether I or not I look for clients who only have problems? My answer is the people who needs coaching are individual that have so much that they forgot where to start. Everyone needs a coach including coaches because coaching culture helps people to explore the essence of their life. It helps them to evaluate things honestly and seek the best value in their life. So, what are you waiting for? Look for a coach who you are comfortable since it is all about what you want in life.

As for me, the best gift from our creator is to make virtual coaching a career for me. Anyone who is virtually possible can reach me too. Just drop me a line for an appointment. No matter where I am, my clients(coachees) is always with me.

If you like to know more about what is coaching, I have shared a video in my website www.3secsoulution.com and you can explore on your own time.

Everything happened for a reason. What makes me say this? Because I know it is the truth and life will be abundance when you discover yourself.

Mirroring yourself

How many of you actually look into the mirror and appreciate what you have? Do you know what a beauty you are? Do you know your own potential?

Many people like to idolized someone but forgot that they are not going to be like the other no matter how hard they try. They live in dissolution and always blaming everything except their own eye sight.

What makes me say this? Well! Because I was like that. I used to admire people with things that I do not have. I discredited my own ability. Yes, I might not be as good at the other person but nothing should stop me from going all the way for it. Is it too late to do so now? There is never too late. Everyone has the same number of hours in a day. Everyone age no matter how old they are now. Therefore, what is stopping one from achieving this?

No one have the power to stop you if you know what you want. The question remains with that individual. Today’s webinar with @AndreaZsapka give me a reason to clear up some air. There are coaches and there are coaches. So, what are this coaching doing to that individual? Are they there to lend a hand or are they there to ensure you know which hand to use?

As a coach, my only passion is to ensure that my client(s) will be able to walk their journey spontaneously and eagerly. They must not fizzle like the sparkling juice bubbles that goes flat after being left alone for some time. Then, they might not need me anymore, right? My answer is yes. Because with each successful session, I hope the I can reach more people than one person with more hours. I just want to be their temporary mirror of their success which they are inspired to drive forward. I wish to see each reach a place of recognition that they want for themselves. My pride is to watch them achieve their dreams. No dreams are too big as long as it is what their inner strength blossom to the fullest.

Am I going to see more people inspired by their own vision? I really do not know the answer. My only prayer is that all coaches will give their best to ensure their clients always are independent to live their life after each session. People who seek for coaching are people who knows they will still need one when their success is going in a new level. They do not hang on the need of a coach as compulsory but as a compliment to their wisdom.

I encourage everyone to look for coaches that really give you clarity on your own vision. Mirroring your vision in silent while you took the whole decision with confident.

I might not know the next journey but I definitely looking forward to the adventure of exploring the next. We only have one life and living it abundantly will be the best present for ourselves. I did and discover the beauty of seeking out through coaching and being coach what I might still left undiscovered. 

Heavenly Pardon Day

 Since today is heavenly pardon day, I seek forgiveness if I have invoke intentionally or unintentionally in my articles. It is purely my sharing of experiences and it might invoke some pain to people who were somehow affected by my sharing.

Well! the secret of my success is not knowing what is success to me. To me it is a sin since I have such a beautiful gift that I call life. Learning to appreciate it is not something easy when all the emotion are outsourced. I used to think that, to love someone is the greatest gift ever. Then I discover that this is not true. By loving them unconditionally, I have cocoon them into dependency and lack of drive to proceed. I only realised that to love unconditionally, one have to start loving yourself. Not selfish kind of love but a pure respect kind of love. Through this kind of practices only, one can share love because of the abundance. It will only grow within and embrace others. If you have not notice it yet, then it is good to give it a chance to grow.

In the day to day life, decisions are made to accommodate many needs. While it is done in the best interest, sometime it just does not turn out right. What makes me say this? It is because a simple message of “Don’t worry” can be translated into an insult even though it is being said with sincerity without any malice. This is exactly why disagreement erupted. And I learned again.

What is your experience on this? Have you ever been blamed for words or actions that you have taken sincerely in the intention of helping and got back fired? Does this stop you from doing the same good deeds again? As for me, I will not stop doing what I think right but I will use coaching questions to ensure that it does translate good intention as a giver.

Give more and you will see.

www.3secsoulution.com visit me if you have time. Coaching is the best tools to communicate in peace.

Coaching Rocks

 

I decided that my past experiences are unavoidable and it only will cause more harm than good. When I join @https://www.soleiltrinity.com/founder in her free courses, I immediately know what I am missing. I have the opportunity of attending her free courses about 5 years ago. At that time, I just go for the sake of knowing something about fungshui. During that time, I was not ready to see and rescue myself from that situations. Maybe. at that time her courses was also mostly on fungshui.

However, life take a turn with the pandemic. I began to see life differently. When a good friend pass away, his words engraved in my mind. He said “ Before you die, LIVE” .I start to ask the questions on many things that I dare not ask before. I thought that what is gone is forever gone. Walao! (Chinese experiences of amazement in a different tone), what I have missed. Thankfully, she came out to give many more free courses with insight into what I was thinking. Is it a miracle happening or is it just pure law of attractions.

The other reason could be the coaching that I had and the coaching that I am conducting for many people. Finally, I decided to open up the dark secret of my life. Some just do not know how to accept that I went through so much and remain strong. In fact, I am also giving myself a dress down on what have I done if I know it earlier. But, some things are meant to happen at certain time of your life. Mine did. I saw it as my way of showing the world that no matter what happened I can survive the test. Time will determine the outcome.

From then on, I passionately involved in any coaching sessions that is available. If I can help one, it is my way of thanking the past for what they have given me. A courage to be different. A place for others to fall back on by reading my story.

Is there any regret? I used to have that but now it is no longer a regret. Like Captain Shan of https://teamcoach.com.my/ reminded us, as coach we are here to help people find the solution in chaos. We are all in this situation somehow or rather.

Do you know what is the reward I love most in coaching? That the participants sparkle with enthusiasm when they found their ah-ah moment. In one coaching session, my coachee’s most wonderful respond when we meet for coaching was this:-

“After two sessions with you, I know that no matter what the problems are, I am sure to have some solutions. The other beauty of coaching is, I start to use good questioning to get some answer.”

I am sure for those coaches out there, this is one thing that makes you motivated towards coaching. I did.

My value in life is to see a community of people using coaching culture as their daily conversation. It is always a rewarding conversation with impactful results even though you are having an disagreement. If I can change a toxic environment to a platform of understanding then we will all have more talents who passionately delivery their ability without fear of failure.

If I can do it, you can do it too.

You are welcome to visit me on my Linkedin @https://www.linkedin.com/in/peggyang8682 

my website @https://3secsoulutioncoach.godaddysites.com/

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More from Peggy Ang

Coaching Values to ME

 If you have to dream , then work at your dream. In Mandarin "梦想“ (pronounce as Meng Xiang ). To me it means , I have a dream that I must realized. Dreams teach me a lot because it is me making decisions internally. The trick is to know your dreams translation.

This bring me to topic of not knowing what and how to effectively execute my personal social media. The main reason lie in me. I do social media posting to encourage and motivate people including myself. It is my hope that through the many posting, someone can seek me out to support them using the coaching methods. On the other hand, it will also be beneficial to me. The issues arises from the acceptance level of people on coaching. I will share with you my fear of coaching even now and how I solve them.

1. Ego journey - I believe I am an egoist by practice. Now I keep throwing out by ego whenever possible and that open up the flow to limitless possibilities.

2. Fear of wrong - in my culture being wrong is such an embarrassment. Now I just apologize and be wrong with questioning method.

3. I like to talk more than listen - scare nobody let me talk. hahaha!!!  I changed this by learning to listen more than talk. Still practicing la .Silent is golden.

4. Judge by others - poor,rich, clever, dim, pretty, ugly, snooty, arrogance and the list go on. I learn to let myself go by letting the judgement go. If I have to live in the life people mold me then I will not have my life back. The solution, do what I feel appropriate and appreciate the comments.

5. Culture - I am taught to keep all my feelings, dissatisfaction, helplessness etc as a secret because people will use this as weapons. How I wish? what you think I did on this?

there are more but the fundamental of it are these 5 big issues which I am ironing them out gradually.

A habit is not change if we do not do it regularly. Therefore, I keep doing it and learn from the experience how coaching can help me while I help others.

Look for me if I have any opportunity of sharing experience with you.

 

Passive actively Prosper.

 

Dare to be different? Dare to fail again? Dare to walk out and face risks? All these were my failure factors because I only dare to do it internally. I am lucky to be rescue by situation and 贵人(mentor in life) that make me who I am today. A persons that defy the law of not being normal. Facing the pandemic, holding on to a job is solutions to most. But I decided to let go of a good job and jump into something waiting for me . For the past 5 years, I have been too busy to explore my life and my finances. Pandemic give me the reason and the values of risk empowerment. Why I said risk empowerment? It is because I went into the investment with my eyes open and my brain working. I have evaluated. I like you to check your kitty and see whether you have achieve the following :-

1. risk % is yours to manage.

2. 3% and above profit sharing every 5 weeks in comparison FD only give 1.5% every 1 month and you have to be tie down with an amount.

3. Liquidity

4. 24/7 sharing available

5. most importantly, you earn your money legally and do not need to have friends disappearing when they see you.

If you are interested and are in control of your money, then feel free to contact me. Otherwise just see whatelse you can do with growing your kitty to an international status. Good luck.

Time to grow

 How often we do things that we love? How will you decide when to do it? When you have done those things that you love, what will grow for you?

As for me, I have the chance to explore the world(virtually) thankfully I saw the vast opportunity the lockdown caused. Without the need to travel and wasted time in the traffic, it gives me more time to myself.  It is bad and good at the same time. hahaha!!! you think that you can enjoy things and then you noticed that it is just a dream fulfilled so easily. Then I move on to discover things and activities that I have never do before like muay thai , archery, art jamming and the list goes on. This is how I handle my lockdown so that I can see what to bring to tourism when we are open for tourism. How are you handling this change to the new

Attending Virtual PATA Annual Summit 2021 indeed is good way to look future traveling pattern. Countries are rushing up to get everything ready to welcome tourists and have a foot into the SDG. Solutions, to me is to have a joint efforts in ensuring safety Covid 19 travelers. If I am to travel for leisure, I want to know that in the event I was infected, what will the country of travel do for me. I have not seen any country putting an effort into ensuring the safety of tourists. Well! Not yet. Time is crucial when pandemic like this is not going away.

Should we hide and cry or go out fight and fight? It is all about countries joint effort.

我的人生的故事

 当我走上人生的道路时，我遇到了很多未知的事物。我正在寻找某种东西，而某些东西总是在变化。可能是因为我没有理由坚持，但因为它充满了我的人生旅程。 ！我喜欢做很多事情，并且喜欢每一件事，直到持续下去。之后，我让自己继续前进。现在回想起来，我成功地设计了许多公司，但是当我离开时，它们都倒闭了。问题在于所有老板都很友好，以至于他们只依靠我来建立业务。没有继任计划，因为他们认为我会永远存在。没有额外的财务支持，因为他们希望我继续挖掘金山，并且无需扩展。扩张需要时间和投资。因此，我被尽最大可能使用传统方法来管理我所拥有的一切。所以当我决定放弃并辞职时。他们刚刚关闭了公司。可悲的是，但这就是人生的旅程。美丽的事物仍然必须结束。但是，美丽的友谊永远存在，为此，我感谢所有朋友，无论您身在何处。

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请原谅我的华文字体，传不是用Google　Translate　的。

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Friendship

 I have the opportunity of residing in a lovely neighborhood. When I first shifted here, everyone is young and having young children. After 20 odd years, the children are now all adults. Cars for each family began to increase and the parking space became scarce. If you have four children, then you have min 5 cars. One house can take in at most 4 cars. Another car will be at the road side. Each house share one lot, macam ni matilah. Good neighbors is every important. 

Now, what will be your solutions.

1. Don't buy car?

2. Share parking lots or fight one?

3 car pool?

*This was done but not successful. Let's hope after pandemic it will be successful because more people WFH.

The other alternative is to engage a company that can install double decker parking bays. This will increase the parking bays for each house to at least 4 if you are living in a smaller house and 8 if you are living in a bigger house.

If this can be done in bulk then the price will be super cool right? But what will our government initiatives on this or are they really concern to help.

mmmmmmmmmm.................................... no answer yet.

Self Coaching.

Self Coaching

The value of being yourself when no one is there for you

Time flies when I am having fun. Fun in finding out what I don't like and what I like. Was I wrong in making decision or right? This is another Billion dollars questions.

Now let me ask you, have you ever have it in your gut that you are 100% right? If you have, congratulations and everything should be flowing your way. I make very good decisions but I cannot control the outcome and I wanted to control that. It is indeed a wrong choice. But.........I learned again to let go. I just do what I can, that is defend my decisions and let go of the needs. It is really to good to have this choice.

Give it a go if you are stuck in the same position as mine.

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Courtesy of: http://www.dianechinn.com/2018/02/16/noodle-on-this-can-people-trust-you/

Europe I am coming.

 Don't Trust ME, Trust YOURSELF.

First thing first:-
Whether I like it or not, the time will keep ticking on. Vaccination is compulsory for travel to be possible. Dying is the other alternative which nobody can control, therefore this is not a point for consideration.
Second thing:-
Plan your trip with me. I am embarking on the road map learning the places to visit.
Adventure journey :-
Minimum 30 days, Maximum 90 days(given by respective country that I am visiting)
Budget:-
Enough to learn the real life of traveling without baggage.
Target:-
Look at the map and start planning. 1st Stop Schiphol Airport. http://www.linkedin.com/in/peggy-ang-a8247372

What is your world like?

In this world of dogs eat dogs, many things remain unclear.

Therefore to be actually enjoying trust and peace, LOOK INTO YOURSELF. Most of the time, we think and act differently to suit the situation. This created a very "fake"  world for many.

If you look back, how will you survive if you did not do what you need to do instead of what you want to do? What will be your choice then and what is your choice now.

Who will be there for you if you are one who lie through your teeth to get what you wanted to achieve. This pandemic gives us a lot of opportunities to look at "the polisher" and also the "polished".

Those who are not doing either it is what I call "ME". You might not be successful yet but you will. Please be genuine and find out what is in YOU that needs investing on.https://twitter.com/peggyang8682