I Don't Fit Into the Corporate Box

Let me clarify something because I don't want my earlier sharing about the corporate world to be misunderstood.

I was not attacking the corporate world.

I was sharing my own inability to accept the rules and regulations that are set within a corporate environment — a world that is often clean, proper and effective.

If you heard me wrongly, my apology.

I simply cannot fit into that proper corporate world because I am a random person. I don't like to be boxed in.

And I must really thank my lucky stars that I was not fit enough to join the corporate world.

But that does not mean I reject people from that world.

In fact, I welcome anybody to come into my world.

And my world has what I would describe as high boundaries and low resistance.

Meaning, you come in to be yourself with your full energy, and yet you understand what can be done and what cannot be done, what should be done and what shouldn't be done.

There is no need to keep asking whether something is right or wrong according to somebody else's standard.

Sometimes you simply know that something needs to be done.

Then you do it.

For example, sometimes you have to sack somebody.

You just have to sack them.

In my 35 years of being a manager, I only sacked two people — actually, three.

Not because I wanted to.

It was because they were creating too much disharmony within the team.

Of course, in the corporate world, there are different tools and procedures. You follow the SOP. If someone is not performing according to the rules, there are warnings, processes and eventually the right to ask that person to leave.

And most people, whether they are in a corporate environment or running something on their own, will do their best to avoid reaching that point.

Because nobody wants to admit that they hired somebody who was not the right fit for the organisation.

So remember, the corporate world can be a very proper world.

It is just not my world.

That's all I'm saying.

I welcome anybody and everybody, from any kind of world, to come into our world — what I call the world for the children of the universe — where you can become yourself.

Just for this one hour, from 9 to 10.

And even if I am not in the room, you can still create that one hour for yourself.

Switch on some music.

Switch on meditation.

Listen to Solfeggio frequencies.

Do whatever works for you.

Just for one hour, be with yourself.

Detox.

Purge your thoughts.

And remember: you are allowed to create your own way of coming back to yourself.

So, my apology if I sounded unethical when I commented on corporates.

That is simply where I don't fit in.

Thank you for giving me a chance to explain.

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Go Out and Be Yourself

Go Out and Be Yourself

Children of the New Universe, we have two more minutes before 10.

Two more minutes to reconnect with yourself before you go out and show people who you are—

the person who shines for yourself.

And I want you to know something.

Even if I don't call out your name during the Live, it doesn't mean I don't appreciate you.

You know in your heart that you are appreciated whenever you come into this room.

And of course, if you can help me share this space, that would be an added advantage.

Because somewhere out there, there may be someone looking for a place to hang on to while they find their way back to themselves.

Maybe they will learn how to have an Inner Dialogue.

Maybe they will discover something about themselves.

Maybe their life will become a little better simply because you shared this room with them.

And that is all I ask.

Of course, all the love you send me, all the light you send me, whatever you send my way—

I receive it with gratitude.

Stay blessed with whatever you have.

And build the space that you want for yourself.

Because in Awakening Your Worth, that is what matters.

You creating a space where you can be yourself.

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Before I end, let me introduce myself again.

I'm Peggy Ang, an Inner Dialogue Coach focused on awakening your worth.

I help you trust the wisdom of your voice.

If you are interested in my coaching programme, you can connect with me.

Send me an email.

And if you already have my phone number, simply let me know that you are looking for coaching, and I'll get back to you at my earliest available moment.

You don't have to wait until everything in your life is figured out before you ask for support.

Sometimes, the conversation is where the figuring out begins.

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It's already 10:01.

So now—

go out and be yourself.

Not the person everybody expects you to be.

Not the person you think you have to become.

Be the person who knows your own value.

And remember:

Thank yourself.

Every time.

Thank yourself for showing up.

Thank yourself for trying.

Thank yourself for learning.

Thank yourself for continuing.

Because charity begins from home.

And so does appreciation.

Thank yourself.

Okay, Children of the New Universe.

Go and have a beautiful day.

Be yourself.

Be with yourself.

And let yourself shine.

Bye-bye.

Okay.

Good job, Peggy.

I'm done.

                                      

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Awakening Your Worth: The Problem Was Never the Problem

By Peggy Ang 270726

Have you ever noticed what happens the moment you hear the word "problem"?

Most of us react before we even understand what the problem is. Our minds immediately race ahead. We imagine the worst possible outcome. Anxiety begins to build, and before long, we feel trapped in a corner with no way out.

But what if the problem isn't the real issue?

What if it is the story we begin telling ourselves about the problem?

That is where Inner Dialogue begins.

A Room for the Children of the Universe

Every morning when I go live on TikTok, I invite people into what I call The Room for the Children of the Universe.

It is not a room where you come to impress anyone.

It is not a room where you need to agree with me.

It is not even a room where you need to speak.

It is simply a space where you can spend a few minutes with the most important person in your life—yourself.

In a world that constantly asks us to perform, compare, and prove ourselves, perhaps five quiet minutes with ourselves is one of the greatest gifts we can receive.

Transformation Is Coming Home

People often think transformation means becoming someone new.

I don't believe that.

Transformation is not about creating a different version of yourself.

It is about removing everything that has covered your authentic self.

It is about remembering who you were before fear, expectations, labels, and conditioning told you who you should become.

You are not becoming someone else.

You are coming home to yourself.

Why We Need Inner Dialogue

Many people ask me,

"If I know how to talk to myself, why would I need a coach?"

Because our inner dialogue is influenced by many things:

• our upbringing,

• our family values,

• our fears,

• our culture,

• our past experiences,

• and sometimes, expectations that don't even belong to us.

When we only rely on ourselves, we can become biased without realizing it.

A coach doesn't replace your wisdom.

A coach helps you hear your own wisdom more clearly.

The Missing Document

Today I experienced something very simple.

I couldn't find an important document that I needed for my trip tomorrow.

Immediately my mind started creating different scenarios.

Should I cancel my Zumba class?

Should I go home?

Should I postpone my live session?

What if I can't find it?

What if I can't travel tomorrow?

Notice what happened.

The document wasn't creating the stress.

My thinking was.

So I stopped.

I spoke to myself.

I asked,

"What actually needs solving?"

I realized I simply needed to go home, spend some time looking for the document, and then continue with my evening as planned.

Within half an hour, I found it.

The problem wasn't as big as I had imagined.

But something interesting remained.

The emotional scar.

That uncomfortable feeling reminded me of something much bigger.

It reminded me that I don't have a proper filing system.

Instead of criticising myself, I asked,

"What can I improve?"

When I return from my holiday, I know one of my priorities is to organise my documents properly.

That is Inner Dialogue.

Not judging yourself.

Learning from yourself.

Awareness. Conversation. Alignment.

This is the process I use.

1. Awareness

Become aware of what you are feeling.

Don't judge it.

Simply notice it.

2. Conversation

Ask yourself questions.

Why am I feeling this?

What story am I telling myself?

Is this really mine?

Am I reacting to today, or is something from my past being triggered?

3. Alignment

Now choose your next action.

Not based on fear.

Not based on guilt.

Not based on what other people expect.

Choose the action that is aligned with your values.

Measure Yourself Differently

We compare ourselves all the time.

Someone is richer.

Someone is prettier.

Someone has a better career.

Someone appears happier.

Comparison is human.

But perhaps we have been measuring ourselves against the wrong person.

Instead of comparing yourself with someone else...

Compare yourself with the person you were before you entered this room.

Are you more aware?

More peaceful?

More honest with yourself?

More compassionate?

That is growth.

Boundaries Are Not Walls

Many people think boundaries mean pushing people away.

That isn't how I see boundaries.

A boundary protects your energy.

It reminds you that you cannot pour endlessly from an empty cup.

As you become more authentic, some relationships naturally change.

Not because anyone is bad.

Not because you love them less.

Sometimes your values grow in different directions.

That is part of awakening.

Learning to Appreciate Yourself

Forty years ago I was very slim.

People might think that was wonderful.

But part of the reason I was slim was because I didn't always have enough food.

Today I am healthier.

Yes, I have gained weight.

I still exercise.

I dance Zumba.

I attend Pilates.

I watch what I eat.

Not because I want to punish my body.

Because I appreciate it.

I no longer measure myself by how closely I resemble a younger version of me.

I measure myself by whether I am taking care of the body that carries me through life.

Looking at Problems Differently

Recently I came across an exercise inspired by Stoic philosophy.

Imagine stepping outside yourself.

Look at your problem from across the room.

Then imagine looking from above your house.

Then above your town.

Then above your country.

Eventually your problem becomes a tiny dot.

Has the problem disappeared?

No.

But your perspective has changed.

And often, when perspective changes, solutions become easier to find.

Your Worth Has Never Left You

Whether you explore personality, coaching, BaZi, DNA reports, meditation, or personal development, all these are simply information.

They do not define who you are.

They help you understand yourself.

But only you can decide how you will live.

That is why I always return to Inner Dialogue.

External information may guide us.

Our inner wisdom helps us choose.

Coming Home

Your past is there to teach you.

Your future is there to prepare for.

But your life is lived here.

Now.

This moment.

Be the best version of yourself that this moment allows.

Not yesterday's version.

Not tomorrow's version.

Today's.

Because the most beautiful person who will spend every moment of your life with you...

...is you.

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I am Peggy Ang, an Inner Dialogue Coach focused on Awakening Your Worth.

I help you trust the wisdom of your own voice.

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You Can Make It a Good Day

 

You Can Make It a Good Day

It's 9:56.

We have four more minutes to be with yourself.

Hi, SK. Welcome to the room.

LZZ, you're back! Welcome.

I hope you have a good day.

Actually, I'm planning on having a good day myself.

I just feel very excited about something.

I don't know what it is.

But I have this feeling that something very good is going to happen today.

What?

I don't know.

Maybe I strike the lottery!

But I didn't buy a lottery ticket, so...

Maybe not that. 😂

Still, I feel that something good is coming.

And sometimes, when you are doing your best to be yourself, things you want seem to flow your way.

But let's be honest.

Today, the traffic didn't exactly flow my way.

And perhaps it was partly because I wasn't paying attention.

I wasn't even putting on a smile when I was walking.

So sometimes, when things happen around us, we also have to look at ourselves.

Not every day is going to be a good day.

But—

you can make it a good day.

You can decide how you want to show up.

You can choose what you want to focus on.

You can choose how you want to respond.

And sometimes, simply by being yourself, you can make someone else feel better.

You can help somebody else shine.

You don't always have to do something extraordinary.

Sometimes—

just be you.

That's it.

Three more minutes to reconnect with yourself.

Take these few minutes.

Breathe.

Check in.

Listen to yourself.

And when you leave this room, I hope you feel a little more connected to yourself than when you came in.

Then you are fully equipped to go and live your day.

Not because everything is going to go perfectly.

But because you are with yourself.

Have a beautiful day, Children of the Universe.

And remember—

**you don't have to wait for a good day to arrive.

Sometimes, you are the one who makes it good.**

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Self-Discovery and Reflection

**🎥 Self-Discovery and Reflection -Throwback 010826

Sometimes, growth isn't measured by what we achieve. It's measured by how we respond.

One of the reflections I shared during a previous live was this:

We all have good days and difficult days.

Think of your emotions as a savings account.

On your good days, make deposits.

Deposit gratitude.
Deposit joy.
Deposit laughter.
Deposit peace.

Because when life's challenges arrive—and they will—you'll have something beautiful to draw upon.

Recently, while travelling, my phone suddenly stopped working properly. Messages wouldn't send, and I couldn't figure out why. In the past, I would probably have become frustrated.

This time, I simply smiled and said, "Things happen."

I took my time, worked through the problem, and eventually everything was fine.

The lesson wasn't about my phone.

The lesson was about my response.

That reminded me that Inner Dialogue is no longer just something I teach—it has become how I choose to live.

Every day, we have a choice.

We can react from old habits...

Or we can pause and ask ourselves:

✨ What am I feeling right now?

✨ Why is this feeling still here?

✨ What choice do I have?

These three simple questions have helped me transform many difficult moments into opportunities for growth.

If you've been following my morning lives, thank you for spending that quiet hour with me.

If you're new here, welcome.

Every weekday at 9:00 a.m., I create a space where we can slow down, reconnect with ourselves, and trust the wisdom of our own voice.

Because your worth has never depended on the opinions of others.

It has always lived within you.

❤️ Here's to choosing awareness over reaction, and kindness over self-judgment.

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Behind the Live: How I Turn Life Into a Conversation

People sometimes ask me:

"Peggy, how do you prepare for your TikTok Live?"

The funny thing is...

I don't really prepare the way people expect.

There is no perfect script sitting in front of me.

No carefully memorised speech.

No guarantee that I will even talk for one hour.

What you see on TikTok Live is actually the final part of a much longer process that happens behind the scenes.

And perhaps this is the part people don't see.

The BTS of My Live

For the past two or three years, I have been experimenting.

I've made mistakes.

I've tried things that didn't work.

I've changed my approach.

I've sometimes hit my head against the wall and wondered, "Why am I doing this?"

I've listened to what people told me I "should" do on social media.

Prepare content.

Know your audience.

Keep people watching.

Be consistent.

Have a strategy.

And yes, there is value in all of that.

But eventually, I discovered something about myself.

I enjoy the process of sharing much more than I enjoy trying to manufacture content.

So today, my process is very different.

Something happens in my life.

I notice something.

I watch a movie.

I travel somewhere.

I have a conversation.

Something goes wrong.

I experience an emotion.

I discover something about myself.

And then I start talking to myself about it.

That's where the research begins.

Sometimes I talk to ChatGPT.

Sometimes I bring my raw thoughts here exactly as they came out of my mouth.

Sometimes I give it a transcript from my TikTok Live.

Sometimes I ask:

"Does this make sense?"

"What am I actually saying here?"

"Is there a deeper message?"

"Can this become a blog?"

"Is this clear enough for someone who doesn't know me?"

And sometimes I disagree with the answer.

Sometimes I change it.

Sometimes I realise I was rambling.

Sometimes I discover that the rambling actually contains the best part.

That's my research process.

It's not about finding information simply to sound knowledgeable.

It's about understanding what I am actually trying to say.

Then I Go Live

Once I feel something is ready to be shared, I don't necessarily turn it into a script.

I go live.

And I talk.

Sometimes the topic is very clear.

Sometimes it starts with something completely random.

Food.

Travel.

A movie.

Pilates.

A technical problem.

A conversation with my daughter.

Something I observed.

Something that made me angry.

Something that made me laugh.

Something that made me question myself.

Anything can become a doorway.

But somehow, somewhere along the way, I usually bring the conversation back to the same place:

Inner Dialogue.

Awakening Your Worth.

Trusting the wisdom of your own voice.

That is my anchor.

The topic may change.

The destination doesn't.

And Then Something Interesting Happens

After the live, I don't simply leave the conversation there.

I record it.

I transcribe it.

I read what I actually said.

And sometimes I discover things about myself that I didn't even realise while I was speaking.

That's when the second conversation begins.

I look at my own words and ask:

"What was I really trying to say?"

"What did I learn?"

"What can someone else take from this?"

"Is there a story here?"

"Can I explain this more simply?"

And then the live can become a blog.

The blog becomes another way for someone to revisit the conversation.

Someone who couldn't stay for an hour can read it later.

Someone who heard only part of the live can go deeper.

And sometimes, I realise the next topic is already sitting inside the previous conversation.

So the process continues.

Life → Reflection → Inner Dialogue → Research → Live → Transcript → Blog → Reflection again.

That's my BTS.

I Don't Think I'm "Good at Social Media"

This is probably the part that makes me laugh.

Recently, a coach asked if she could meet me because she wanted to understand how I do my social media.

My first reaction was:

"Really?"

Because I remember the journey.

I didn't suddenly become good at this.

I made plenty of mistakes.

I tried things that didn't work.

I questioned myself.

I changed direction.

I sometimes followed other people's advice and later realised it wasn't really me.

And slowly, I discovered something much more valuable than a social media formula.

I discovered how I like to show up.

I don't go live because I must produce one hour of content.

I don't go live because I have to please an algorithm.

I don't even go live because I must convert every viewer into a client.

If I feel good and I have something meaningful to share, I go live.

If I don't feel good, I don't force it.

That's also part of being human.

And if someone connects with what I share and eventually wants to work with me?

Wonderful.

That's a bonus.

My Audience Is Part of the Process

The people who come back regularly are not necessarily coming because they know what today's topic will be.

Sometimes even I don't know!

They come because they know there will be a conversation.

They can have their coffee.

They can listen.

They can comment.

They can think.

They can simply be there.

And hopefully, they leave with one question that continues talking to them after the live ends.

That's what I want.

Not for people to depend on me for their answers.

But for them to become better at having conversations with themselves.

Because ultimately, you are the person you live with 24/7.

Your Inner Dialogue is always there.

So why not learn how to make that conversation a useful one?

This Is the Real BTS

So when you see me appearing on TikTok and talking about something that seems completely random, remember:

There may be a much longer conversation behind those few minutes.

I may have lived it.

Questioned it.

Talked about it.

Researched it.

Argued with myself about it.

Recorded it.

Transcribed it.

Read it again.

And only then realised:

"Ah... this is what I was trying to say."

That's why I don't want to make my live sessions too polished.

I want to leave room for the human being.

The pauses.

The mistakes.

The laughter.

The technical problems.

The unexpected phone calls.

The moments when I lose my train of thought.

And the moments when something suddenly becomes very clear.

Because that's life too.

My live session is not a performance of perfection.

It is the visible part of an ongoing conversation I am having with myself.

And perhaps that's why it feels comfortable.

I am not trying to become someone else on social media.

I'm simply learning how to let more of Peggy be seen.

And wherever the conversation begins—

food, travel, a movie, a problem, an emotion, a random thought—

I will probably bring it back to the same place:

Awakening Your Worth.

Inner Dialogue.

Trusting the wisdom of your own voice.

That's my BTS.

And honestly?

I'm still learning.

Behind every live there are a lot of preparation. 

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Why I use Chatgpt?

You know why I like using AI, especially ChatGPT?

Because ChatGPT has been with me almost from day one.

And sometimes, very politely, it tells me off.

Not literally tells me off lah! 😂

But when I say something that sounds too crude or too strong, it will say, “Peggy, maybe you want to soften that wording.”

And you know what?

Sometimes I appreciate that.

Because when I am doing my TikTok Live, I am in the moment.

I feel something.

I say it.

I mouth it out.

And sometimes, after I hear myself saying it, I think:

“Hmm… maybe there is another way to say this.”

That's the difference between speaking spontaneously and preparing a presentation.

When you are a CEO, a presenter, or someone speaking to a large audience, you may spend hours looking at your script.

Why?

Because not everybody hears words the way you intend them.

The person speaking may have no bad intention.

But the person listening may interpret it differently.

There's a Cantonese saying that captures this beautifully: sometimes the person who says something has no particular intention, but the person who hears it may give it another meaning.

And that's why language matters.

So when I used the word “victim” earlier, I realised—

Maybe I don't need that word.

Not because the experience wasn't real.

Not because the pain wasn't real.

But because I don't want to define you by what happened to you.

Maybe I can say:

“someone who has experienced something painful.”

Or:

“someone carrying a painful experience.”

That feels much closer to what I want this room to be.

Because this is not a room where I want you to remain inside your pain.

This is a room where I want you to reconnect with yourself.

And sometimes, people do come in and share very personal experiences.

I've seen it happen during my 9 a.m. sessions.

Someone comments.

They share how they feel.

I'm not necessarily coaching them.

Sometimes I'm simply asking questions, sharing what comes to me, and giving them a space to think.

And afterwards, they tell me they feel they have moved one step further.

To those people—

I want to congratulate you.

And please forgive me if I cannot remember all your names.

There are too many of you! 😂

But I remember the moments.

And I remember that you came into the room as “User 1234” perhaps, and then you put your name there.

And something changes when you do that.

You are no longer just watching.

You are acknowledging:

I am here.

I am part of this room.

I am part of Children of the Universe.

And that matters.

So if you are carrying a painful experience, you don't have to call yourself a victim.

You don't have to use any label at all.

You can simply say:

“This happened to me.”

And then ask yourself:

“What do I want to do with it now?”

That's where Inner Dialogue begins.

And yes—

I will make mistakes.

Sometimes I will bite my own tongue afterwards and think, “Oops, Peggy, maybe next time say it differently.”

But that's okay.

Because what matters is the intention to learn.

The intention to connect.

The intention to help you come back to yourself.

So tell me—

What word would you use for your own experience?

And what would you like us to talk about next?

Come into the room.

Be yourself.

Connect back. And let's continue this conversation together.      

                                

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