Breakthrough Journey - 3 simple steps.

Life is all about chasing the dreams. The questions starts to be implanted to you when you were born. In the modern generation, parents started way before the child is born. Is this the right way to cultivate a new generation?

From my research, a child is a gift. They are not something that is being flown in by the stork. They are also not something that you own. They are a person with life of their own. 

The problem starts with the parent's best intention. That is to give them the best of what they never have and to ensure that they live a full life. 

My question is what will you consider as full? 

To most of us including the previous me, I used to think that the material things that I gave to my child will definitely bring more joy and happiness for her own path in future. 

Parents work hard to ensure that the financial capabilities will give their children what they wanted. But seldom give the children a choice to choose. Drama unfold when the child did not follow their direction and due to the pressure of pallial piety the child tag along. Everything look good right?

Wrong. This is because when they become an individual they will start to look for their own identity. They are trapped between themselves and feel that nobody will understand their issues. This leads to many medical problem and eventually a beautiful life is dead before it dies.

I am referring to the mass majority of the population but thankfully there are still parents that allows their children to be themselves. Let them grow and enjoy their value in their own way.

So what can be done for your child if you know that they are in a stuck state.

These are few methods that I employ for my clients that you might want to test out in helping your children to achieve their own breakthrough.

1. Clarity

    Through your daily conversation , encourage their participation and observe their emotions.

2. Ask relevant questions pertaining to 1.

3. Be 100% present- Listen with interest. You might not be clear of what they are saying therefore you present is the most motivating factor. 

Last but not least:-

 In chapter 81 of the DaoDeJing 道德經, LaoZi 老子 provides us with a similar cultivation principle:

聖人之道 為而不爭

The way of enlightenment is to take the action without arguing or competing with others.

If you need professional help, I am a certified coach and help clients to resolve all these within a private and confidential coaching process. 

Please contact me at peggyang868@gmail.com with you requirements and I will response accordingly.