Miscommunication is also communication

 How often were you caught in a situation where what you have said seems to come out wrong? I kept asking myself, is it so difficult for me to translate my message? Did I miscommunicated or it just that they are listening, feeling or seeing from their point of view instead of the real issues. I am like that, and I just found my mirror. Things must be change for the better.

And then I discover from my NLP Practitioner course that none of this happened. It is just a miscommunication on all. Not in words but in the representation of the words.

This open up a whole flood of understanding when I rethink about what causes people to be piss off by certain situation.

I must admit, I love to talk and love to motivate. This is because I just love people and love the way things are interacted. I make decisions very fast therefore I make a lot of mistakes and jump into many unwanted situations. Lots of heartache towards building my businesses and liaising with people. 

Thankfully, things have a turn around when I was diverted to coaching course instead of Train The Trainer (TTT) course. It is indeed and eye-opening experience. From being put in the spot for having to be the one who supposed to know everything, I become the person who unlearn everything and relearned things.

I love coaching because I can do self-coach which is very powerful and also, I can face my own devil.

The world is full of goodies. One just need to start looking for it within themselves. In our culture, it is a taboo to give advice to elders (Well! In my family this is the case) therefore I have to use myself as an example. Open up the wound of imperfections and failures. There is still a long road to recovery. How can you remove a hate that is embedded so deep that even the excavator cannot reach? I have to melt it down and take time in mending the thoughts.

Like they say, it's not good to keep grudge but people don't know how to let go. Most people think that they become stronger when the have this strong grudge within themselves without noticing that they kill themselves before they even kill anything else. Miscommunication again with within. 

Therefore, for those who have dreams, rethink about your life. Make it so beautiful that even the enemy (If you have one) will admire and respect you. Only by doing this you are giving yourself a value of pride and a place of respect. Communicate this with passion.

Wishing you many wonderful experiences in communicating effectively to avoid miscommunication especially within yourself.



Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

THE IAC COACHING MASTERIES™ - My Commitment

 One of the IAC code of ethics: - 3.06 Terminating the Coaching Relationship. Coaches agree to terminate a coaching relationship when it becomes clear that the client is no longer gaining benefit (or is being harmed) from the coaching relationship. In terminating the relationship, coaches will suggest alternatives or provide referrals to coaches or other professional services when appropriate. I am a coach to help you unlock your potential and ensure the growth that you want. But are you genuine in change? In my Personal Breakthrough Coaching, I adhere to the real development that goes beyond monetary exchange. It is about commitment, responsibility and unwavering dedication to your own growth.  I will work with you in achieving your goals and beyond. However, this needs to be in a certain mindset which you MUST have. you are willing to be accountable for your actions. you are ready to take the promised actions. you are fully committed to the coaching process. you genuinely appreciate
Read more

What is rapport building?

 In a world that is full of possibilities, many people think that they are the possibilities. This is a good sign of advancement. However, how many people really dive into the possibilities to extract the value that they wanted? Here are some places where rapport have to start:- Your tools - a. smiling face b. a good sounding questions start with the easiest thing around you c. listen with joy. Scenario 1: Dialogue with Family You, the protagonist, are speaking to your younger sister, Sarah, who just started high school. You: Hey, Sarah! How was your first day of high school? Sarah: It was okay, I guess. I don't know anyone there. You: Don't worry, you'll make friends in no time. Remember, I was nervous when I started too. If you ever need help with anything, just let me know. Sarah: Thanks, that makes me feel better. Scenario 2: Dialogue with Team You're a project manager in a creative agency talking to your design team about a new client project. You: Team, I'm re
Read more

Coaching is sole for you.

#MasteringOurDestiny #Coaching #LearningJourney #PersonalGrowth #MindBodySpirit #DynamicFengShui #AbundanceMindset #HolisticWellness #QiActivation #Manifestation #SelfReflection In the midst of perusing advertisements promising strategies to market my business, I found myself pondering: what truly drives my passion for coaching? It's a question worth exploring, as it speaks to the core of my journey. I may sound noble, but truth be told, I am passionately immersed in coaching, eagerly absorbing every facet connected to this transformative practice. My reasons are simple: 1. **Love for Learning:** My thirst for knowledge knows no bounds. Each day presents an opportunity to expand my understanding and refine my craft. 2. **Embracing Mistakes:** I believe in the power of learning from failures and mistakes. They are inevitable, but through them, I continually evolve and grow. 3. **Empowering Others:** There's a profound sense of fulfillment in helping others discover their potenti
Read more