Law of attractions

Law of attractions

Law of attractions is really a phenomenon to me. I choose to believe in this since this really create that kind of result, the heart and soul have to be dedicated solely to the cause. Every now and then we behave like a hypocrite. Doing one thing and advising another. In this kind of scene, what can the law of attractions be of use right? The fundamentals of this are tag against the strong belief and constant harping of the issues that might and most of the time happen to give you the satisfaction of practicing this method. How many of us are that diligent or really understand the needs to have this strong power that will not be sway? How many will pin down their mission wholeheartedly in the strong belief that you will succeed? And again, how many really have that kind of power to stay strong after defeat. Law of attractions never promises anything except you to have to contribute a lot to make this a successful action that can bring you the result.

I have written this sometime back and only posting this now. Through my journey in life, many things have happened due to my strong desire to excel and very stubborn assets to win. Luckily, I learn to bow out of things and learn to accept defeat when it's time to do so. There are a few lessons which have helped me to achieve my result in drawing successes. 1. We must be able to do whatever task diligently and wholeheartedly 2. we must believe that nothing remains same and we must go with the flow. 3. Never give up. ALWAYS believe in your ability to perform above your own limits.

How you do this????..........I will share my experience soon.

Time and expectation

COF Day 2 : Time and expectation

Even though it's a short span of a few hours, many things and situation tend to change. What happened to be the blockbuster news have slowly faded away into the background. It will not be the topic of the day anymore. Therefore, time heals everything. Always appreciate your time and respect other people's time too. Missing one minute here and two minutes there might not seem important to you but you still have to respect the time given to you. All things with life have a cycle. Like a flower, it is the product of a seed which over time become the flower which we see. Nobody really notices the growing stage as you yourself also do not know it. In maybe 10 years or more then only you realized that what you have planted is giving you flowers or thorns. I just learned from one of the FB postings that negative comments can draw results. It's how we use the result that will give us the outcome we wanted. The traditional sweet and clean image of presenting all the goods have somehow been replaced by aggressive marketing. People just want to see results, they don't care how you do it as long as you get them what they want. In order to be in this position, the trendy marketing style purely follows the trends. This brings me to the statement below, every day I receive this kind of statement thru one site that I have signed on for free. I am amazed that it always share some thoughts I am having or action that I am taking. It's like another voice of mine. 

Chien: Humility,

Do not forget that in life, nothing remains unchanged and everything evolves through transformation. You must learn how to evaluate every situation with the correct amount of modesty. If you are living a moment of success, re-dimension your enthusiasm; If on the other hand you are waiting for development be patient; everything turns and renews itself.


In the success journey, most of us have to walk alone because the mission to achieve the vision is something only the "creator" knows. Many a time I have been aggressively sharing videos or articles from things that I learned. And many times, I believe people think that I am a little out of scopes. I am one person that like to form my own opinions and sadly most of the time is quite different from the existing thoughts. I for one blame my ancestors for being so old fashion in the education arena. If they are more proactive at farming the thoughts of our people, then we might have better things. But like all things, it's easier said than done. Biting my own words, I believe they have done what they thought is the best at the time and at that era. Imagine the faces of our ancestors if they ever have any women who wear a miniskirt during that time? I believe you know what I mean ya. Well! What we do now might not be applicable for our children and our grandchildren so.............................................WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO?   

Meaning of Birthdays.

Birthdays used to be very important to me because this is the only time presents starts to pour in. As we age, we have more and I need less, therefore, the meaning of birthdays become less materialistic and more valuable in life. Today I am officially 53 years old and counting. Enthusiastically, I enjoy the serene time of being who I am and what I need. For the past 30 odd years, it's all about making things good for others. It's all about what I can do for others because I do not have those things and fell extremely proud to provide it for them. But........a few years ago, I came to realize that what I did is because I wanted to do it out of my own free will and hope for appreciation. It is totally shocking to realize how I mistreated myself for the happiness of others. I could have been richer then but that has not come to my mind. I am blessed to have things that I wanted or more so I thought my help is appreciated.  I no longer seek attention in returns of favors or doing things for others without them asking for it, freely. If they need me, I believe they have to start asking them.

Learning is really an incredible tool. It changes over time even though the thoughts remain authentic. In learning new things, I manage to retrain myself to adapt and change for the betterment of the present. Furthermore, this learning should NEVER stop. Sometimes or honestly speaking my ego does stand in the way of progress. My thoughts stubbornly refused to accept the lesson taught. I am only human too and I have to keep doing self talk to achieve some progress. Part of this is due to the environment where speaking or thinking positively is like a life and death change. In order to be better, I have to swallow my pride and accept reality. I am emulating change and make it my daily routine. Changes can be bad or good but if I don't realize that I need to change then it's definitely my loss. Believe me when I said in this era CHANGES is the keyword. I don't live to be at this age and more and still learning because I have nothing to do. What will I be when I am 60, 70, 80 or more? How can I be independently able and enjoying life if I do not learn now? I do hope those who are young realized that they need to work harder because the technology is catching up faster than their brain. They should learn how to use the technology for their betterment and not let the technology better than them. Parents play a big role in ensuring that all the learnings are skills that are not replaceable. Life is a cycle, what you have accumulated in wealth might not be sufficient for your next generation if you do not farm it thru your children. How many poor become rich and how many rich remain rich? Nobody remains in that status with just one generation of fortune. Wake up and work it out so that you will have a generation of Entrepreneurs.

Stay tuned to my unpredictable writing time. Spend a lot of time learning and writing. Cheers to the moment. ALWAYS LIVE FOR THE MOMENT 活在当下。

Life

What is life? People been heard too say that"Die die die" or "I prefer death than this" . It's the perception that it is easier this way or you thinks they just wanted sympathy. I personally are probe to say the fist phrase many years ago but as I aged, I learn to accept every obstacles  as a bonus. I must be crazy but I believe being crazy is better than death.

I live my life in ways that is very sidebar from most people.  I want to achieve my dreams within this two years.When I did that,I still greed for more life therefore I pray that my calling don't come so soon. As long as I can yak , eat, happy and healthy,I want to life to a great age.

After all I have a very busy guy that give me 15 minute of his time to say hello and goodbye.Therefore,I have so much time to save on 24 hours.I just calculated that I have 350,400,  minutes a year and if I use only 15 minute a  day I still have a lot of space to explore my life. So,I must start to draw my life chart until the end.

Either way, life have to be the best regardless of your status. We should do things that can improve our lives and motivate our youth. Well! I am thinking and planning ardently. Hahaha! I wish everyone successful life as I care for mine.Finally, don't harm anyone or anything that have life.

The above was something I wrote two years ago but not posted. Many things happened but none nearer to mine commitment. This is a total failure because I just stopped progressing. Why? I am also puzzle. As I search my thoughts and actions, I am holding back due to reluctance to see. I worked hard but not smart. I thought by helping others, I can achieve success in my own life because we are team builders. But somehow along the way , I lost my drive. What could have been a success is all just a huff in the smoke.

Serious thinking is needed but my personal "debts" is bogging down all my effort. Therefore, first step is to clear all this dirty linens. Then start loving myself by ensuring I take care of my everything perfectly.

Let's start.

Weird

You are so flabbergasted that a simple words can be put into such negative atmosphere. Sometimes it really pissed you of when the subject is so besotted to performed a "hamba"  duty then drag you along. That is not doing, you have to be grateful that you are drag along.Oh! My God what will happened in future. There have to be a change. From this moment on, just reject sympathy ride. I must be mad top think that situation will ever change. But I should know it would not and will not change. I am the one who should change. Yeah! Isn't this great.

At last.

Prayers

Types of prayer and why.

It is always a puzzle why we pray so differently.For me,I conduct prayer our of respect to culture and ancestor's teaching. I believe we should not demand anything from these ritual.It serves as an outlet for those who need to be heard.God will always take care of us no matter what or who we are. People started to blame God when prayers are not answered.They don't realise that we are blessed with so many things that we don't need and still want more.

Just reading"The monk who sold his Ferrari'( well,a late one to read this book but better later than never) which give me the new meaning of full. In one of the page,Julian keep pouring tea on a cup until it overflow and only stopped when John yelled at him. The rationale is Julianne is telling John that we cannot take in anything unless we empty the cup. In this, it meant that you already have more than enough and you still ask for more? Of course there are deeper reasons from this lesson that meet the eyes. I just feel appropriate that I see it here in this scenario too.

I may be a culprit for saying this but I have the right to think and say. As long as it does not hurt anyone.I believe in all religions that teach people about being a good human who live in a very congested world.

 There are no right or wrong until people debate on it for their own benefit.

With respect of all religion that advocate goodness and harmony, I salute.