Richness in Solutions

If you are reading this, it means that you might have read my topic on "Revenge! Is this Richness of your LIFE?"

The solution you are poisoned by revenge is a long journey. Since revenge does not bring anyone any benefits, let's dive into the solutions as an alternative to a better and richer life.


1. Forgiveness
This comes up as the top solution to revenge. This is the most powerful tool too.
It does not mean that you can forget and condone the wrongdoing. It simply means that by forgiving, you release yourself from being hurt in the future. There are more than this so please read my next posting "Forgiveness is rich"

2. Communication
Having a coaching conversation with your coach or the people that you trust might give you a clearer picture of the incident. It could just be a simple misunderstanding. If it is not attended the it becomes toxic and the pile-up of toxicity will happen. This is one of the most common reasons revenge appears in your life.

3. Seek mediation
If you are not able to communicate due to reasons which you only know then look for a trustworthy mediator. I personally like to face my problems or issues head-on because I get clarity faster and life becomes easier.

4. Legal Recourse
If laws are involved in your case, then settling it by seeking legal action will be a wise choice. Chinese have a proverb that said, “The more you repair, the blacker it will be”. Just face the truth because it might not be what you think it was.

5. Self-Care
Promote your self-care routine. Engaging in activities like yoga, meditation, singing, exercise or even traveling will be very therapeutic in addressing revenge intention.

6. Empathy
Use empathy to understand what causes the other person to hurt you. What was their intention? You might not like their way but with empathy, you might understand the cause.

7. Let Time Heal
Time is the best healer of all. Give yourself some breathing space and take a break for you to recover.

8. Focus on Positive Outcome
I used to be a drama queen and always went into chaos whenever anything happened. Though I do not have any need to take revenge, this point draws meaning. When I started to view all as positive, the solutions is pretty simple. The law of attraction will then circulate positive energy for me. This can be a good way to eliminate revenge from your list.

9. Support Network
We always say good friends are like jewels. A handful of these friends will bring you out of the revenge mood. This is also the best solution to have therefore keep your friendship strong with them.

10. Coaching culture
You can also seek coaches like me to support you on your journey in life without revenge. All solutions are embedded within you and you will know the answers through coaching. Coaching also is a way for one to share in a safe and private space of your own.


Revenge is actually an act of hurting yourself and those who love you. Are you ready to release this pain and live a life full of happiness? The choice is ALWAYS YOURS.




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