If you wake up and when you wake up - what is life to you.

Reflections on Life, Death, and the Journey In Between  About a decade ago, I came across an article about death therapy. It shifted how I see life entirely.   In every life, there’s one absolute truth: if there is birth, there will be death. Yet, in many cultures, death remains taboo—a subject people avoid because it forces us to confront our impermanence. This reluctance is understandable. We spend so much of our lives chasing dreams, goals, and fulfillment, clinging to the idea of permanence. But the truth is, we come into this world with nothing, and when our time is up, we leave with nothing.   What is life really about, then?   Life is a journey of challenges, growth, and lessons. Every single one of us faces this, whether we choose it or not. I’ve come to see our bodies as leasehold properties—vessels for the soul, energy, or whatever you believe animates us. When the lease expires, we leave this physical form behind and move on. Different religions and philos...

Life's journey is a tapestry woven with our upbringing, environment, and personal experiences. Through this lens, I’ve often pondered: Am I guided by wisdom or mere instinct? None of these reflections are strictly right or wrong; they simply are facets of my unique path. Childhood Lessons and Their Impacts Reflecting on the early years, about half a century ago, I embraced certain beliefs: 1. Doing good would lead to good things happening to me. 2. Inaction wouldn't prevent things from happening for me. 3. Offering more would naturally earn me greater appreciation. Yet, despite these beliefs, life’s complexities have persisted. I wonder, how many of you find yourselves on a similar path? Navigating Through Self-Discovery Through NLP, I’ve learned to channel past aggressions, while sound meditation has helped break entrenched norms. These practices have allowed me to explore deeply layered thoughts—some stemming from past imprints, others from set expectations. But what truly is...

  Title:  Discovering My Inner Child: Lessons in Authenticity and Resilience Twelve years ago, I took a leap that changed my life—I joined an inner self-discovery workshop. That decision not only helped me confront my inner struggles but also laid the foundation for personal and professional growth, teaching me resilience and the importance of self-awareness in navigating challenges. Financial limitations had kept me from participating earlier, even though I had longed for it for years. The workshop turned out to be a profound experience, filled with tears, realizations, and emotional confrontations. One of the most intense revelations was my deep-seated resentment toward my mother. She was the only person I could direct my frustrations at, though it was far from transparent. On the surface, I continued to be her financial supporter, the one who shouldered responsibilities for her and my siblings. She often pressured me by pointing out how others supported their families, guil...

#MasteringOurDestiny: Understanding and Healing the Inner Child When I started off on this journey, I began with a focus on #richness—richness of life, growth, and meaning. Ironically, perhaps it was this richness that led to my Facebook account being hacked. It’s been almost eight months now, and I’m still in the process of trying to retrieve it. What a lesson this has been! In the early days, backup measures were nonexistent, and the recovery process now demands information that wasn’t even required during initial registration. Believe it or not, the hacking happened on a day of discovery—a day when a deep secret came to light. But that’s life. Change happens, and we move forward. I decided to shift my focus to this new chapter under #masteringourdestiny. I began to rebuild—not just my Facebook account but my life. I dug deeper into my #unconsciousmind, and one truth became very clear: the only constant in life is change. Is change good or bad? Well, it depends on how we look at ...

Yes, life is a parcel. A parcel that needs to be open. I been thru a lot of obstacles in life. However, I am thankful that whoever is up there still remember to reward me  once a while. Thank you.  Nearly had a clash with my daughter. But, though I am sad that I still have to remind her about her duty and responsibilities. Being a very short fuse lady, she was thumping like an incredible hulk. I was a little annoyed but not to the extends of fighting fire with fire. Instead, I just let my own disappointment turn to disaster. After all, she is just a tired girl who have not rested for one week. School activities. Well, glad that I have done that. While I was preparing for  a beauty sleep, my lovely daughter came in to apologies.  Now, don't you think that is the sweetest thing to do. I really appreciate her sincerity and accepted be eater I was never angry. Just annoyed. Backdate that to my birthday. Knowing that her DOM(me) is such a person that love birthdays, ...

 When I chance upon a friend, I asked:- What is your definition of happiness. Her reply:- I have food on my table. I travel whenever I want. I choose to be alone whenever I want. But the sparkle is not in her eyes. Then I asked: - What happened to real happiness? What will really make you feel that you are living your life full? Her reply: - I don't know. How many of you out there are like her? How can you find out? What is next if it is still needing an answer? As for me, my happiness is the ability to feel the joy and realization of my clients after each coaching session. When they bloom, I feel very happy because in the same process I found my own answers. You might think that it is weird that I have this kind of emotion and feelings. Well! you can give it a go and do something for someone, but you get the returns in more than financial space. If you are needing a coach, simply reach out to me at lifejourneyhome9@gmail.com

Life is all about chasing the dreams. The questions starts to be implanted to you when you were born. In the modern generation, parents started way before the child is born. Is this the right way to cultivate a new generation? From my research, a child is a gift. They are not something that is being flown in by the stork. They are also not something that you own. They are a person with life of their own.  The problem starts with the parent's best intention. That is to give them the best of what they never have and to ensure that they live a full life.  My question is what will you consider as full?  To most of us including the previous me, I used to think that the material things that I gave to my child will definitely bring more joy and happiness for her own path in future.  Parents work hard to ensure that the financial capabilities will give their children what they wanted. But seldom give the children a choice to choose. Drama unfold when the child did not follow...

#MasteringOurDestiny #Coaching #LearningJourney #PersonalGrowth #MindBodySpirit #DynamicFengShui #AbundanceMindset #HolisticWellness #QiActivation #Manifestation #SelfReflection In the midst of perusing advertisements promising strategies to market my business, I found myself pondering: what truly drives my passion for coaching? It's a question worth exploring, as it speaks to the core of my journey. I may sound noble, but truth be told, I am passionately immersed in coaching, eagerly absorbing every facet connected to this transformative practice. My reasons are simple: 1. **Love for Learning:** My thirst for knowledge knows no bounds. Each day presents an opportunity to expand my understanding and refine my craft. 2. **Embracing Mistakes:** I believe in the power of learning from failures and mistakes. They are inevitable, but through them, I continually evolve and grow. 3. **Empowering Others:** There's a profound sense of fulfillment in helping others discover their potenti...

#MasteringOurDestiny #LifePurpose #SelfReflection #PersonalGrowth #Coaching #LearningJourney #SelfDiscovery #LifeAdventure Where do you belong? Who do you belong to? What can you do with this information? As you ponder upon these questions, allow me to share my journey and insights with you. Many of us strive to surpass our previous selves, continually climbing higher until we realize we've strayed from our prime. It's then that we often hit the emergency brake, only to discover it's too late. Youth fades, and the opportunity to prepare for another ascent dwindles. Why do I say this? In my late 50s, I've found my life brimming with adventure, delving into various fields like coaching, NLP, Bazi, Oracle card reading, and more. I used to believe I was prepared, relying on stable income sources and investing what I could afford to lose. Yet, I failed to calculate the future value of my investments. My life's purpose is simple: 1. I love to learn. 2. I love to share. 3....

Title: Embarking on a Journey of Self-Mastery: My Fasting Retreat Experience #SelfMastery #HolisticWellness #FastingRetreat #MindBodySpirit #WellnessJourney #HealthyLiving #NourishYourBody #SelfAwareness #Gratitude #EnergyAbundance #MindfulNourishment #WellnessCommunity In the quest to master our destiny, every aspect of our lives comes into play. For me, it began with a journey of spiritual and mindset cleansing, paving the way for a deeper understanding of holistic well-being. One of the pivotal steps in this journey was learning to nourish my body while still embracing the joy of holiday festivities. This realization dawned on me amidst moments of clarity that emerged continuously, transcending mere physical detoxification. Thus, it came as a pleasant surprise when I stumbled upon an event notice adorning the door of Purity Wellness, my sanctuary for yoga and wellness. A Fasting Retreat amidst nature, orchestrated by the seasoned guidance of Teacher Alan alongside the support of Tea...

Title: Finding Light in Life's Ups and Downs: A Journey of Self-Discovery Have you ever felt like the ups and downs of life were wreaking havoc on your journey? Perhaps you've wondered if it's just a natural part of growing up, or if there's something more to it. Like many of us, I've often failed to recognize that everything happens for a reason.  But now, I've come to realize that many aspects of our lives are within our control. You might be skeptical, thinking, "How can this be possible?" Trust me, I've been there. And even though I may appear to have it all together on the surface, the untold stories of my struggles run deep. Yet, with each realization, my path becomes clearer and brighter. I woke up in time. Rejection used to hit me hard, leaving me feeling defeated for extended periods. And truth be told, it still stings. However, my response has evolved. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, I now ask myself, "What is this teaching me?...

Title: "Navigating Life's Tapestry: A Journey from Regret to Coaching Triumphs" In the realm of history, value is derived not merely from lessons learned but from the ability to break free from the cycle of repetition. It's a puzzle to witness individuals tirelessly investing effort yet remaining ensnared in the historical data of failures despite the desire for change. The chief hindrance for many is their own confusion. A coach's role is to unravel this complexity, aligning the chaos with individual capabilities, recognizing that Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither are we constructing it yet. Yearning for shortcuts to success often leads us down a path of knowing without true knowledge. However, divine interventions, sometimes in the form of a metaphorical knock on the head, teach us that success is a journey, failures are not defeats but stepping stones to career enhancement. Transitioning from a dominant boss to a coach turned my world upside down. Pas...

Will you be able to stand firmly on planet Earth if there is no energy? What then is energy to you? This article is about the way energy has helped us to achieve comfort in life. Energy is fundamental to various aspects of human life and is essential for powering a wide range of activities. Here are some key ways in which energy is of use for human beings: 1. **Electricity for Homes and Businesses:**    - Energy is used to generate electricity, which powers homes, offices, industries, and various electronic devices.    - Lighting, heating, cooling, cooking, and running appliances all rely on electricity. 2. **Transportation:**    - Energy is required for transportation, whether it's fuel for vehicles (gasoline, diesel, electricity for electric vehicles) or energy for public transportation systems.    - Airplanes, trains, automobiles, ships, and other modes of transportation are dependent on energy. 3. **Industrial Processes:**    - Indus...