Awakening Your Worth Day 4-where are you?

 

Day 4

#masteringyourdestiny

After the 3 days sharing, I hope some of you are making progress. Even if your progress looks like it is a setback. Anything that you done can only be call progress. It might not happen overnight but it is slowly seeping into your thoughts and surely it is going to be a place what you choose.

There is never a bad or good. It is always the perception of the moment and our teaching that gives us the imprint of what it meant. To different people, it serve different purpose. Like the shoes sizes, you cannot fit into a shoes that is not your size. Therefore when you progress, stretch it just above your norm. If you can run only 5KM now, go for 6KM next week for 1 more month, then speed up to 3weeks and so on. Growth is no linear, it is always fluctuating because your body learns thing different everytime. This is the lesson I learned from my yoga teacher @AlanChin. From him, I learned that our situation is our decision. To let go might be hard but to hold on might be worthless. This happened when he keep encouraging his students to stretch a little bit more and not to do yoga as a fashion show.

Treat every experiences as the mirror of your inner soul. The thoughts that pop up, they all give you a reason to ponder. Some of us observe it with the breath of live ,while others let it blown over and treat it as a lesson in life. No matter what is your outcome, the action that you took might determine how you live.

For example, I make it a point to read the bazi of my family and they think that I am doing fortune telling. Some of them do not trust me because I use to be a 神婆 or a frantic person who hang on to all the words given by medium. Sometimes it does makes sense but as I reflect back, I was very unsure of my life. I was always seeking for the truth and all their messages are mostly what embedded in my soul. When it is voice out by the external entity, I choose that path because I do not want to face the consequences of the result. If anything went wrong, I can push the blame to the external influence. 

Well! the truth cannot be far from home. In this I mean to say that, I am the creator of the situation whether it is external or internal outcome. When I started to coach and then practice reading bazi, I came to my wakefulness and took back the driver seat. I took full responsibility of the situation and if if is an internal issues, I find blessings on the situation because I can finally do something about it. If it is an external situation, something that I cannot control- I observe and only response when needed. Initiatilly it is difficult because I was a control freak and an egoistic person. But as I took action, the ability to reward myself for all my failures and success become the pages of history. 


Mind you, it was and is never easy. With layering of possibilities lies more layers of challenges. I wake up every morning to thank the creator for giving me another breathe , another day. I embrace the day with unexpected outcome but strongly anchor my confidence in myself.


Everyone can do it but the question is how many will have this kind of compassion towards themselves in a world full of "if you want to be successful, follow the law of the world- don't change". While people like me, keep forging ahead. Having unseen bruises, unspoken pain and still bite the bullets and step on the paddle- keep moving.

Which one are you?

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