Awakening Your Worth - Day 13 : 5 life realities

 Today is the 13th day that I spend on sharing live on Tiktok which evolve around my knowledge as an IAC Masteries Practitioner, Bazi practitioner, NLP Coach and my life story. 

I am unscripted therefore, I share based on the keywords that I have prepared before hand. Life is pretty amazing ya. We are all children of the universe. By noticing that each have their own capabilities to explore the inner universe, first we need to listen. 

I don't listen to listen- that was me before this. It is the ego that give me this trait of being one until my own breakthrough that I live for myself and think for myself. This is also why I am passionate about sharing my story. It is not for you, it is selfishly for me and I hope you have get something from my live posting. 

No script simply means I follow the energy of the room. It do not make magic happened, I am perfecting my moment so that you as the viewers get values in return.

I have not plan any packages to promote on awakening your worth tapping into self-worth since my hours are all spend in collaborating with the moment. Accessing to the information externally while tapping into the possibilities of self-worth recovery for those who attended for themselves. 

Incredibily the number of viewers are extraordinary, it climbed to 8792 viewers within 28 days. I keep reminding myself that I am doing this so that the children of universe can grow purposefully and energetically so that they too become someone who can lend a hand.

With a populations of 8.23billion of which 5.24billion are on social media(this was the statistic from this morning 12th Aug 2025) , the space for growth is so vast. Let's contribute to the betterment of the world by having small habit like sharing my live and liking my page. In all honesty, I only know that #tiktok reward users for ability to garner certain number of viewer. I do not know what are the reward but I am sure to share with you if I see any.

I am thankful to all the viewers for staying on for more than 12second. I congratulate you for taking this extra second to find out whether I have anything to offer. Finding clarity, this is what I respect in you too.

To keep the page for reader who like to read instead of listen, then this is the recap for today's sharing.

"Some people live their whole life without ever meeting themselves. Today, we’re not doing that. Today, we face the five realities that either hide your worth… or help you reclaim it."

 

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1.    You Are Not a Puppet

"Cut the strings. You choose, you move, you speak. Stop letting unseen hands decide your life’s script."

"But sometimes… even with the strings gone, we still stay in the dark."

• Free will – you choose, not the strings
• Autonomy – own your voice, your moves
• Awareness – see who/what is pulling the strings
• Boundaries – cut the cords that don’t serve you
• Empowerment – step into your role as creator

2.    You Are Living in the Shadow

"We hide parts of ourselves thinking it’s protection. But shadows aren’t safe zones — they’re just unlit prisons."

 "And while hiding, we start wearing something else — a mask."

 

• Unseen self – the parts you hide or ignore
• Fear – of judgment, failure, or rejection
• Limiting beliefs – old scripts from the past
• Avoidance – staying small to feel safe
• Self-reflection – shine light on the hidden corners

3.    The Social Mask Philosophy

"We play roles. We smile when we’re breaking. We act strong when we’re tired. But every mask adds weight — and one day, you forget the face underneath."

 "So how do you break free from the strings, the shadows, and the masks? You take action."

 Facade – who you present vs. who you are

• Conformity – fitting in to be accepted
• Performance – constant “acting” for approval
• Exhaustion – mask-wearing drains your soul
• Authenticity – the courage to take it off

4. Take Action to Break – Your Strength

"Strength isn’t something you wait for. It’s something you build. Small steps, scary steps, stubborn steps — that’s how you break what’s been holding you."

"And once you break free… you don’t just survive. You live."

 

• Decision – choose change over comfort
• Courage – act even when scared
• Resilience – bounce back when it’s messy
• Skills – build what you need to move forward
• Momentum – small steps become breakthroughs

5.    Live Life Full

"Be here. Say yes. Laugh loud. Give much. Love hard. Life’s too short to play small in your own story."

 

• Presence – be here, fully
• Gratitude – for the now, not just the someday
• Joy – do what lights you up
• Contribution – give, connect, impact
• Adventure – say yes more often

"Your worth was never lost — it was just hidden behind strings, shadows, and masks. Today, you’ve got the scissors, the light, and the courage to step out. Use them."

YOU are always the best when you become the authentic self. LOVE yourself more and you might understand what makes me do what I do-coach, guide and enlighten. For those who are already on this path, please help to share your experiences and let others have some hope in their life.

Thank you very much and my gratitude to all your support.

Awakening Your Worth - AYW Day 12 - 5 of your Values

 Values are not just for the other to know but for you to reinstate. Your value will be your compass in life and guide you towards a betterment according to your own action and decision. They are the reason, you become what you wanted and also the pillar for destruction or growth. Either way, you need to address these with tender loving care.

1. Your Life - claim ownership. 

•   Ownership – it’s yours, not a borrowed script
•   Purpose – knowing your “why”
•   Seasons – every phase has its lesson
•   Choices – freedom with responsibility
•   Legacy – what you leave behind

2. Character

Be the person that your future will thank you for. Build a character based on your authenticity and flow from inside out.

Doing and performing are special. Irregardless of the outcome, build your accountability and strive for excellence because you can.

•  Integrity – do what you said you’d do, even when no one’s watching
•  Resilience – bounce back, not break down
•  Humility – strength without the flex
•  Consistency – same values, rain or shine
•  Trustworthiness – earning belief, not demanding it

 3. Heavenly Blessings

Catch the blessings and be in the moment. Things that you cannot change, let it go. Embrace the 3% of heavenly gift and expand the horizon. Here are some methods that you might want to consider.

•  Gratitude – daily noticing of the unseen gifts
•  Alignment – living in sync with the flow of Heaven & Earth
•  Protection – unseen hands guiding and guarding
•  Provision – what you need always arrives, in some form
•  Faith – belief even when logic blinks

4. Attitude
This is the foundation of expression. You might not notice it but the way you express yourself are felt though you might not even utter a word yet. Attitude is as important and your breathe. It's a silent killer and healer. It depends on how you use it to reinforce your values.

This weapon can anchor you into your inner universe and help you to glow. Think about this and what you have done before. It might give you some ideas from now on.

• Positivite – seeing possibilities, not just problems
• Openness – willing to listen, learn, and adjust
• Discipline – keeping the course when the hype fades
• Respect – towards self and others
• Courage – acting despite fear

 5. Self-Worth Reinstatement

Reminder: this is what I hope to see which is your ability to keep reinforcing yourself to a place that nobody can rob. You are shining in the dark for yourself and sharing the light from within. Keep going. But if you still on the path, these are some actions that you might want to apply.

• "Stop renting your value to others. Move back in and renovate. Your worth was never gone — it was just waiting for you to reclaim the keys."Awareness – knowing where you lost your worth
• Boundaries – the gates that keep your garden safe
• Forgiveness – releasing what keeps you small
• Reclaiming – speaking and living your worth again
• Flourish – not just surviving, but thriving

"So today, guard your life, sharpen your character, receive your blessings, protect your attitude, and own your worth. Because if you don’t… someone else will."

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AYW- A pause

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I have been sharing about AYW- Awakening Your Worth as part of my self-worth series. It was planned for 30days consecutively on live FB and TIKTOK @peggyang57.

Yesterday, I received a call that 6 days is way too much to absorb a change for people who are just waking up to the fact that they are possible. Therefore at the very last moment, I decided to put a pause.

If you are interested to know more, you are welcome to pm me or just hop into my page for past live posting.

Today, being a Sunday, a day when the universe's energy also allows for rest, I decided to do something different. An oracle card reading live posting while drawing a card from my deck.

What is Oracle reading to you might be different usage for me. For me, it is a trigger of thoughts that is anchor on my focus. Where I need to progress and how I am going to do it can be clearly seen from here.

Oracle deck are intuitive and borderless for divination.

It is the mirror that I might want to see.

Having done it correctly, I normally can see the following:-

Patter - what kind of path have I chosen and how I am going to choose now.

Emotional truth - if I do not love myself, I have only exchange it with love package in a version that I want.

Beliefs are cultivation and evolutions over time. What is right might not be right for now.

Message that I felt but I still need to see.

How many of you out there are as human as me. That you are facing challenges that sound like obstacles. 

Either way, the tools that I am passionately encouraging you to use is Bazi aka Metaphysic or Coaching combine with Oracle Card reading.

If you find this interest, hope on my band wagon and let your self-worth reinforce itself.

WE CAN AND WE WILL BE AT OUR BEST.

Awakening Your Worth Day 5- Forgiveness

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WHY FORGIVENESS = SELF-WORTH.

I am changing the topic today after realizing that today, 24th July 2025, is a Heavenly Pardon day. A day that my teacher Jessie Lee have encouraged us to take opportunity for repent.

A cosmic invitiationto let go - not because they deserve it, but because you do.

When you forgive, the past is brought into the present. The power to hold you guilty or angry or any emotional barrier start to melt away. It does not just slip away like wiping a stain off a table. It will slowly and definitely fade away. You want this to happen and only you can make it happen.

The ritual of forgiveness can be use anytime and at any place. It is you the matter most.

This is wath I encourage you to do:-

Forgiveness Breath Ritual

1. Inhale : "I allow myself to feel"

2. Hold: "I Release the grip of pain"

3. Exhale: "I choose peave now"

Repeat 3x

Say:

“If this live triggered anything... good. That’s your soul whispering, ‘Let’s heal this now.’ You are safe. You are free. You are worthy.”

What you might feel now while others might only feel it later. It does not matter but as long as you are aware of your worth- you are moving forward steadily.

The detox of emotion might happen in the following manner:-

Tightness in the chest soften.

Shame gets flushed through tears - just allow it to happen.

Anger discolves when there's finally space for compassion.

You are not broken- = just...... vulnerable.

Like having the inner child peek out and whisper.

"It still hurts, but I am ready to be free."

End it with a thanks to the energy of the creator or in any way you feel comfortable with, and seal the deal of forgiveness.

Watch my live sharing on Facebook or tiktok @peggyang57 at 10am on 24th July 2025

 

Awakening Your Worth Day 6-When will you break free?

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On my Day 4 sharing via Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/1FrcwaiFJa/?mibextid=wwXIfr and 

@peggyang57 -Tiktok, I mentioned the supplements that I find useful in armouring myself with.

A- Awareness 

Always stay in the light of darkness by being aware of the situation that you are facing. There is no problem except you need solutions. In this kind of situation, use the 3 things that I mentioned before. 

Focus on the present and use the past as a lesson. What you failed is not failure until you accept it as one. All you have done is just following the flow of universal norm - admit defeat. 

C- Consciousness 

Bring your thoughts back to consciousness so that you can address the power of your unconscious intelligence. Use that as your dictionary book call "My Life, My decision"

E- Emotional

All these are without doubt co-related to emotion. So who run the show, you or our emotion since you cannot avoid this kind of energy. I will suggest that you use all because when you follow the steps that I am using, you can only progress steadily.

Having said all that, does it mean that you will have a smooth sailing life? Just like to inform, in progress there is no smoothness in life but there is smoothness in process.

Time is our enemy or our friend, it all return back to you when you use it right. Right in your own context. Meaning, if I want to have my play time - I take it with a conscious thought that me unconscious needs to find meaning in that activities.

Talking on my live event, I am having my play time. This is what I am passionate about. To deliver my failures as a stepping stones to those who are walking the path that I took. Even if they fall, they are aware of where to stand up from.

Having said all that, come and join me on Day 5 tomorrow.

"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate" - Carl Jung.

Let's move one step ahead. Take charge of your unconscious because it is the strongest energy and it's duty is simple " To love you for who you are-fully and commited to you"

Awakening Your Worth Day 4-where are you?

 

Day 4

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After the 3 days sharing, I hope some of you are making progress. Even if your progress looks like it is a setback. Anything that you done can only be call progress. It might not happen overnight but it is slowly seeping into your thoughts and surely it is going to be a place what you choose.

There is never a bad or good. It is always the perception of the moment and our teaching that gives us the imprint of what it meant. To different people, it serve different purpose. Like the shoes sizes, you cannot fit into a shoes that is not your size. Therefore when you progress, stretch it just above your norm. If you can run only 5KM now, go for 6KM next week for 1 more month, then speed up to 3weeks and so on. Growth is no linear, it is always fluctuating because your body learns thing different everytime. This is the lesson I learned from my yoga teacher @AlanChin. From him, I learned that our situation is our decision. To let go might be hard but to hold on might be worthless. This happened when he keep encouraging his students to stretch a little bit more and not to do yoga as a fashion show.

Treat every experiences as the mirror of your inner soul. The thoughts that pop up, they all give you a reason to ponder. Some of us observe it with the breath of live ,while others let it blown over and treat it as a lesson in life. No matter what is your outcome, the action that you took might determine how you live.

For example, I make it a point to read the bazi of my family and they think that I am doing fortune telling. Some of them do not trust me because I use to be a 神婆 or a frantic person who hang on to all the words given by medium. Sometimes it does makes sense but as I reflect back, I was very unsure of my life. I was always seeking for the truth and all their messages are mostly what embedded in my soul. When it is voice out by the external entity, I choose that path because I do not want to face the consequences of the result. If anything went wrong, I can push the blame to the external influence. 

Well! the truth cannot be far from home. In this I mean to say that, I am the creator of the situation whether it is external or internal outcome. When I started to coach and then practice reading bazi, I came to my wakefulness and took back the driver seat. I took full responsibility of the situation and if if is an internal issues, I find blessings on the situation because I can finally do something about it. If it is an external situation, something that I cannot control- I observe and only response when needed. Initiatilly it is difficult because I was a control freak and an egoistic person. But as I took action, the ability to reward myself for all my failures and success become the pages of history. 

Mind you, it was and is never easy. With layering of possibilities lies more layers of challenges. I wake up every morning to thank the creator for giving me another breathe , another day. I embrace the day with unexpected outcome but strongly anchor my confidence in myself.

Everyone can do it but the question is how many will have this kind of compassion towards themselves in a world full of "if you want to be successful, follow the law of the world- don't change". While people like me, keep forging ahead. Having unseen bruises, unspoken pain and still bite the bullets and step on the paddle- keep moving.

Which one are you?

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Awakening Your Worth Day 3 -What makes behind the Scene Important.

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BTS - behind the scene.

As I was waving through my sea of thoughts, I am bombarded with so many questions. Questions that asked me how am I bringing my sharing to a place of knowledge. How do I use what I have to give what others need.

Everyone or almost everyone is gulping down information like satisfying their being of being knowledgeable. I am of no difference. I learned and keep learning from anyone and anywhere. The most it does is bringing me further into another unknown territory which does not resonant with me.

Then out of the blue a little voice appear whispering softly. I says " It is time to focus , ground yourself and progress". This happened in my darkest moment when I was swiming through my trauma of deception. A tool that I have handed to other and that is why it hurts. It is my own stupidity that created the space for hurt.

Only then I realised in forgiving myself then I can walk away from all the victimized situation. By walking away itself it is not enough. I started to set boundaries. I started to give myself a space to grow. Slowly but intentionally. 

Therefore, everyday I will walk with a purpose. It started with sharing random subject that interest me from singing, dancing , bazi reading and coaching. Embracing the now is most important as Focus serve as the weapon for moving forward. While grounding let me plant my seed of growth in cultivating the coaching culture while Progress is the fuel that I top up every moment of the day. Not everyday but every moment.

Today, the person I am is way different that I was years back. I face challenges with a tinge of fear but a clarity of that fear keep each step more meaningful.

I treat my past as a lesson that I am still learning since I have been here for decades. My present is here to share and teach myself another way everyone can be- a teacher to themselves. Forging ahead and looking at future as an inspiration.

Join me in my 30 Day Awakening Your Worth if it calls on you.

Whatever it takes to grow, that's always a way. You need to decide for yourself. I am not here to change you. I am here to show you how I change and how I can be the betterment of my yesterday.

Day 3 tomorrow

on my Facebook or Tiktok @peggyang57 at 10am Malaysia time.

See you there.

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