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You control the FUTURE

  Discover, Reinvent, SUCCEED. In the era of pandemic, many people are caught off guard. I am also in the same boat. Luckily, I am blessed with enough. There was a sharing in whatsapp about the train ride? It is a very meaningful posting which I am re-sharing. Thank you John A. Passaro & many friends that repost it when I needed it most. https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/979577-life-is-like-a-train-ride-the-passengers-on-the This is part of the reason I decided to touch on the above topic. We thought we know everything because we have been in the worst and think that everyone should also know it. Technology open our eyes to the fact that things are not what it seems to be. In one of the webinar from Sadhguru, I am extremely surprised that the weight of coronavirus weightage is less than 1gm(at the time a few months back). Furthermore , there are about 170(no exact number given) medical report daily and still it is a mystery to all. Therefore, why put all effort into the basket of un

Perception

It is funny how things turn out when your good intention are twisted when the "newspaper" related it without knowing the core of the intention(s). In a working environment, everyone groan. Some grown out of frustration of not knowing ,others groan out of knowing but not understanding and so on. One thing I learned is that not everyone is the same. No matter how good your intention is the person(s) concerned still need to be guide. In some corporation, they will throw you to the wolves while some corporation throw the head into the wolves. It is interesting to see the flow of communication is kept clear though the intention is not. Setting and explaining the objective again is another task that I have to undertake. When things are rosy, power struggle become the issues of who is more important. To me ,the team is the most important entity. Education means forcing and breaking the norm because each task will require the said person to break their normal learning pattern. Howe

Effective coaching

Do not ever do a coaching session during friends meet. Its not effective and phone calls will disturb the flow. Always refuse the request for immediate coaching if the folllwing is not adhere to. 1. Phone must be off all calls. 2. Must have full attention for 1 hour reserved 3. Disturbance must not appear whtr the waiter or who also cannot interupt 4. Must be able to leave after that Onlg if this is done then can start the coaching session otherwise dont't do it I learned my mistakes. Cheers to all coaches.

Coronavirus aka Covid 19

Interestingly, the pandemic is slowly disappearing into the heart and mind of humanity. This generation is an accumulation of nothing to everything and suddenly you find yourself being bounced into an unknown future. In every situation, there is always plenty to learn from. From here, I learned. 1. I am the most valuable entity of my life. 2. I can be replace so can you. 3. What I know suddenly become what I need to know more. 4. Those waiting and do nothing for the past months of MCO - they will still do nothing. 5. I live for those who wants advancement and drive forward to excellence. 6. Failure becomes an opportunities because now is the failure stage. 7. Food on the table - even if it is given by the creator, I need to use my own energy to get them. Oh! and the wondering keep added to my list. They way zoom are done, the values comes from the people who don't know a lot. They can proceed to do presentation and such a great enthusiasm in watching . While those who

The Unknown elements.

Without really seeing I thought what I saw was right. This pandemic teaches me plenty. It taught me to see things my way and use it delicately when I am doing my own things. As for sharing, some expect you to be spoon feeding them because you need them for business. Some feel that you have done not enough and expect miracles from you. Living is in achieving something of value to this life at this moment . Dying - that’s the only definite thing in my life when I was born. Fear of dying will only shorten the joy of living and many are in this segment . Sad right? Bad news sell just like bad people . They last longer. In this sense, many people think they do the right thing when they do the wrong thing. Who understand what I am saying here? In the world changes, people got drowned in the flow of processes. Even when the processes is already obsolete, they still follow it blindly. When asked why they do not see the needs to improve by changing and you know what is their response " W

Time is precious

Time is so precious that I am enjoying the simple breeze and the smell of living. This pandemic have throw many challenges to me but I am am grateful for the little thing that I can grasp on. Living is having the pain and joy in learning. I have been taking a lot of webinars. In every one of this webinar, I learn a lot. I just need to think what will it do if we are to use these tools for my business or my life. There are a lot of people selling after each webinars and this is something they need to do to survive. Keep offering free webinars will not be beneficial for them in long run because time is essence of income. How can this new norm be transformed into opportunity for me? One thing for sure, I am blessed to have a family and a home of comfort. Thereafter, I can afford my expenses and life that I wanted. I have a beautiful daughter and partner. A mom who is 84 and counting = playing all the time when she don't throw tantrum. Other than that everyone is healthy and happy. Wha

Why build a coaching culture?

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Everyone can do something.

Looking at this interestingly. Everything that can go wrong, will go wrong anyway. Let's learn to live with this iconic Coronavirus. Malaysian are advice to practice the 3 W  Warn - Stay alert to all KKM notices Wear - Wear mask at all time whenever you are outside Wash - Wash your hands, singing happy birthday twice. It's gonna be good to be happy. Based on my observation ,most business owners was busy chasing after businesses which leave little time for them to jump on innovation.  Really wonderful people and some are slowly learning the robes in the best way they could. It's saddening to see them struggling to stay a float after nearly a decade in the business.  Just some insight on what I do my best to assist in this area which brings me back to the present.  I am managing this company as the capacity of General manager. We are traditionally famous with series  and targeted biz travel groups. Our ebiz was only initiated late last year. We have not even mana

Miracle of life

When you are born into a rich family that turned poor during your childhood days, life becomes extremely hard. I have good parents but my dad was being "spoiled" by my grandparents that he are not able to face the fact for many years. Luckily, my mom took it upon herself to bring us up by being a tailor. She have to work day and night without stopping. At that time, the workmanship of a men's shirt is only MYR2.50. My eldest sister also helped a lot. She did not continue with her education even though she is a very good student. She have come out to work and help my mom in supporting our family. When I was 10 years old, my youngest sister were born. Cute bubbly little baby girl who have now a very successful lady. During this time, my mom took up a stall at the Melaka Bus Station. My eldest sister diligently help her out without complaints. She is one of the elite lady born into a poor family. If not, she would have been a fashion icon now. She can really draw and design

Do you understand Karma?

I had an interesting night before. Listening to Sadhguru youtube always keep me awake till the wee hours of the morning. He said " Every idea, every thought, every emotion, every value that you have -is picked up from somewhere and it rules you from within". Suddenly it hit me. Let me ask you something if you are the believer of Karma. How often you blame karma for all the bad things that happened to you and what is the frequency of you thankful for the good things that karma bring? I am guilty of this. Whenever something good happen then I said I must be lucky or the lucky star just shine on me. But karma will always be the blame for anything that happened to be wrong or bad. Am I looking for a reason to shift this blame from me to something else? If knowing karma can help me to change for the better then I would be without pain or learning. It is not that I am sadist enough to embrace pain but when you have to cross the path, you just have to do it. Each experiences left me

Me towards future- The new norm.

Blogging is something which I like but unable to really cement on it. This is due to the limitation of my ability to express in English. I came from a Convent school and the only English I have is just the conversation with my classmates and the nuns. Therefore, grammar is such a challenge for me. This is also part of the reason I did not make an effort to push myself years back. I feel that I do not have the money, the talent, the smartness etc to do it. Only recently I notice that it is all because of my mindset. Is it too late for me? I woke up to the fact that I am in this situation because I cannot change if I do not want to face the pain. All changes are painful for it to be successful. What is it that will allowed or force me to overcome this pain? I am typing this while listening to Vishen Lakhiani.  He is sharing his past experience and what have helped him to be successful today.  He have also helped me to see that in order to succeed, there is a need for me to pin down my ab