Awakening Your Worth #AYW -3Rs

 

Awakening Your Worth: A Journey Beyond Structure

19th August 2025

Sometimes, life asks us to throw the SOPs out the window. To stop clinging to old systems and instead, step into the unknown — into possibility.

Recently, Jessie Lee pointed out that my tarot card reflects structure in one of the lesson she taught. This resonates deeply with my #Bazi chart, which shows that structure is indeed central to my life. And yes, structure has served me. But here’s the paradox: not all structures are good for me.

I’ve lived inside rigid frameworks until they overwhelmed me. Then, I broke through. I decided to stop forcing myself into shapes that didn’t fit, and instead, simply be here with you. In the moment. Not waiting for miracles, but creating possibilities.

But here’s the truth: when we abandon one structure, we don’t dissolve into chaos. We step into another structure — a new one, designed with more awareness. It’s not the absence of structure, but the birth of a structure that serves the soul.

The Train of Awakening

As I passionately share about awakening your worth, I’ve also been awakened by your comments. This isn’t just a series of talks. It’s a train — constantly moving forward.

Sometimes, you’ll hop off to explore. But your unconscious mind, that inner universe, will keep nudging you with questions as you grow older. Different seasons of life call for different solutions. Sometimes new ones, sometimes simply the right solution for the moment.

In my own coaching journey, I hopped on and off many times. And eventually, I discovered something powerful: nothingness is oneness.

What I share here isn’t about chasing perfection. It’s about preparing you for the life you want. Facing chaos with courage. Falling, brushing off the dust, and rising again.

The Power of Coaching & the 3Rs

This is where the IAC 9 Masteries become so powerful when you awaken. They guide us back to trust, clarity, and resilience.

Let me share just three of coaching results with you — what I call the 3Rs:

🌱 Realisation – Awakens your awareness.
🔄 Reboot – Resets your direction.
⚡ Recharge – Fuels your transformation.

Anchoring in Trust

From the IAC Masteries, here’s one that has always anchored me:

1. Establishing and Maintaining a Relationship of Trust (建⽴及維持互信的關係)
Trust is the foundation of all transformation. Without trust, no structure holds. With trust, even chaos becomes an opening into possibility.

✨ This is the path of awakening your worth. It isn’t about tearing down everything you’ve built, but about reshaping it — with courage, with compassion, and with trust.



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