Finding Light in Life's Ups and Downs: A Journey of Self-Discovery

Title: Finding Light in Life's Ups and Downs: A Journey of Self-Discovery

Have you ever felt like the ups and downs of life were wreaking havoc on your journey? Perhaps you've wondered if it's just a natural part of growing up, or if there's something more to it. Like many of us, I've often failed to recognize that everything happens for a reason. 

But now, I've come to realize that many aspects of our lives are within our control. You might be skeptical, thinking, "How can this be possible?" Trust me, I've been there. And even though I may appear to have it all together on the surface, the untold stories of my struggles run deep. Yet, with each realization, my path becomes clearer and brighter. I woke up in time.

Rejection used to hit me hard, leaving me feeling defeated for extended periods. And truth be told, it still stings. However, my response has evolved. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, I now ask myself, "What is this teaching me?" If the answer isn't immediately clear, I dig deeper. If it's beyond my control, I accept it and move forward. But if there's a lesson to be learned, I make a conscious decision to embrace it.

My mantra? "I acknowledge my failures, learn from them, and try again with a new approach." Does it always work? Not necessarily. But it's a foolproof way to avoid inflicting unnecessary pain upon myself.

This journey of self-discovery has also led me to reflect on the teachings of my mentor, 菜明霞. One lesson, in particular, stands out—the power of Ho'oponopono, a Hawaiian ritual of family healing. It's about taking ownership of our problems, cleansing ourselves of negativity, and trusting in the process of change.

Here's how you can practice it:

1. Identify the problem and be aware of its presence in your life.

2. Take full responsibility for the problem's existence in your reality.

3. Ask for cleansing, even if you're unsure of what you've done wrong.

4. Trust in the divine process of transformation.

You can learn more about Ho'oponopono on websites https://www.wikihow.com/Practice-Ho%27oponopono .

Believe me when I say, magic happens. Especially in Period 9, where the universe connects with those who truly understand themselves.

As an Empowering Passion Coach, I'm living in my passion. Are you? Join me on this journey of empowerment, where together, we'll illuminate the path to your success.

History - Purpose in Life

Title: "Navigating Life's Tapestry: A Journey from Regret to Coaching Triumphs"

In the realm of history, value is derived not merely from lessons learned but from the ability to break free from the cycle of repetition. It's a puzzle to witness individuals tirelessly investing effort yet remaining ensnared in the historical data of failures despite the desire for change. The chief hindrance for many is their own confusion. A coach's role is to unravel this complexity, aligning the chaos with individual capabilities, recognizing that Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither are we constructing it yet.

Yearning for shortcuts to success often leads us down a path of knowing without true knowledge. However, divine interventions, sometimes in the form of a metaphorical knock on the head, teach us that success is a journey, failures are not defeats but stepping stones to career enhancement.

Transitioning from a dominant boss to a coach turned my world upside down. Past experiences fueled regret for not knowing better, not succeeding faster, and more. Yet, the realization dawned that everything unfolds for a purpose. Life happens for us, not to us. Embracing this perspective, I picked myself up and moved forward, finding clarity in the unknown.

Certified by the International Coaching Association five years ago, I initially underutilized my skills until the pandemic prompted a shift. Realizing the potential to help others find meaning, I pursued the IAC Mastery Practitioner certificate, adding credentials as an NLP Master Coach and a Certified Time Line Therapy Practitioner.

My recent venture as a Bazi Practitioner Journey involves Chinese Metaphysics, identifying the universe's energy correlating with one's elements. Understanding these elements empowers individuals to draw purpose from their lives, enhancing their values and actions.

With every coaching or mentoring session, the world transforms into a better place. The journey continues towards the beauty of offering services to those who see the light but struggle to reach it.

The energy of universe.

Will you be able to stand firmly on planet Earth if there is no energy?

What then is energy to you?

This article is about the way energy has helped us to achieve comfort in life.

Energy is fundamental to various aspects of human life and is essential for powering a wide range of activities. Here are some key ways in which energy is of use for human beings:

1. **Electricity for Homes and Businesses:**

   - Energy is used to generate electricity, which powers homes, offices, industries, and various electronic devices.

   - Lighting, heating, cooling, cooking, and running appliances all rely on electricity.

2. **Transportation:**

   - Energy is required for transportation, whether it's fuel for vehicles (gasoline, diesel, electricity for electric vehicles) or energy for public transportation systems.

   - Airplanes, trains, automobiles, ships, and other modes of transportation are dependent on energy.

3. **Industrial Processes:**

   - Industries use energy for manufacturing processes, chemical reactions, and other operations.

   - Energy is crucial for the production of goods and services across various sectors.

4. **Information Technology:**

   - Energy powers computers, servers, and data centers, facilitating communication, data storage, and access to information.

   - The internet and digital technologies rely on energy to function.

5. **Healthcare:**

   - Medical facilities use energy for lighting, heating, medical equipment, and various diagnostic and treatment technologies.

   - Refrigeration for storing medications and medical supplies also requires energy.

6. **Agriculture:**

   - Energy is used in agriculture for activities such as irrigation, planting, harvesting, and processing.

   - The production and transportation of fertilizers and pesticides also rely on energy.

7. **Education:**

   - Schools and educational institutions require energy for lighting, heating or cooling, and electronic equipment.

   - Educational tools, multimedia resources, and online learning platforms are powered by energy.

8. **Research and Innovation:**

   - Scientific research, experiments, and innovation often involve the use of energy for laboratories, equipment, and technological advancements.

9. **Everyday Convenience:**

   - Energy is behind the convenience of modern life, from household appliances to smartphones and electronic gadgets.

10. **Medical Advances:**

    - Energy powers medical research, enabling advancements in treatments, diagnostics, and medical technologies.

While energy is indispensable for human progress and well-being, it's important to transition toward sustainable and renewable sources to mitigate environmental impacts and address long-term energy challenges.

All these are powerful energy and help us tremendously.

Imagine you as the powerhouse of these energies, what will be your outcome? Can you see it now?

 At the moment of writing this article, the historical data of Bazi is still missing. Therefore I can only say Bazi - a part of metaphysics that has existed for centuries.

More to this will be explained in ways that can bring more meaning to Bazi and how you use it on your daily life.

THE IAC COACHING MASTERIES™ - My Commitment

 One of the IAC code of ethics: -

1. 3.06 Terminating the Coaching Relationship.
   1. Coaches agree to terminate a coaching relationship when it becomes clear that the client is no longer gaining benefit (or is being harmed) from the coaching relationship. In terminating the relationship, coaches will suggest alternatives or provide referrals to coaches or other professional services when appropriate.

I am a coach to help you unlock your potential and ensure the growth that you want. But are you genuine in change?

In my Personal Breakthrough Coaching, I adhere to the real development that goes beyond monetary exchange. It is about commitment, responsibility and unwavering dedication to your own growth.  I will work with you in achieving your goals and beyond. However, this needs to be in a certain mindset which you MUST have.

• you are willing to be accountable for your actions.
• you are ready to take the promised actions.
• you are fully committed to the coaching process.
• you genuinely appreciate your values.
• you are committed to the unvarnished truth about your life.

If this is you, then you are in the right place.

I am not just any coach; I am a stewardess of your transformation. I will not compromise your success, and I will terminate contracts when necessary to uphold the integrity of the coaching process.

My commitment to your life journey is as strong as your commitment to yourself.

Hope you are ready to embark on this profound journey. Contact me for your first 15-minute coaching conversation. Send your request by filling up this form https://forms.gle/V1fGqHTQ69aaxG2b8

Three simple steps for life.

 

This is my thought, and it is interesting to see how many people actually noticed that we all are the same. Agree or disagree, we are all on the same energy line.

This is how my system works and how my mindset is flowing through. It seems like you're sharing a motivational message and a philosophy for personal responsibility and success. Let me break down your just one simple point.

We are all functioning through an addition and multiplication mode. Our whole processing system only knows how to do this. Imagine, when you are angry how did the intensity increase that you forgot your values? Now, imagine again. If you are happy, at this moment how much happier and more joyful you are that you do not even have space to be angry?

Just to address these issues, you can like me do the following instantly: -

Just three little steps.

Reflect on the situation. What have you learned because this will take you to a place of learning.

Action - decide how you want to tackle this situation. If you are not happy, what caused it? If you are happy, how to keep it so that you can pull out this secret weapon whenever you are faced with a similar situation again.

Grow - keep growing. Even if your growth is not up to your expectation, you are still growing. The only thing that you need to do is keep rehearsing these three steps and keep on making positive improvements. There is not wrong or right as long as you are growing.

Just like my logo, it's an alien to some and a mystery to others. The most important thing is what is the value to my clients and me. It is all embedded in the coaching sessions conducted for them. Is it wrong, or right? As for me, it is the actions they took, and their life success stories that matters. I know they will remember me in their own special ways. Good luck to those who have made choices to be coached and hope to see more people take responsibility for their own success. If you need a booster - coaching helps to do this effectively.

I am here if you need to find out more on how coaching is needed in your life. It is a free 15-minute sessions of discovering your needs. It is not a free session for those who are curious so do not waste each other time. If you are genuinely interested in your own life development, then send me a request for appointment at peggyang868@gmail.com

Who need rest? You and who else?

When I was doing all the needed to cure any situations, I faced with tiredness too. Why? Because I am a human first then I am myself before I am who I wanted to show the world. The most experienced and capable coach that you want to hire.

This bring me to this topic and honestly, I asked ChatGPT and added my own thoughts into this.

Resting is crucial for one's physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Here are some ways in which resting can help:

1. Physical Recovery: Resting allows your body to recover and repair itself. During rest, your muscles can heal from exercise or injury, and your immune system becomes more effective at fighting off illness. It also helps regulate hormones, which is essential for overall health.

2. This is also one of the reasons why you have muscle ache after a strainest exercise to build your muscles. Continuous exercise helps you to grow but you must give them the time to do so.

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4. Energy Renewal: Resting, especially through quality sleep, recharges your energy levels. It helps you wake up feeling refreshed and alert, ready to tackle the challenges of the day. A well-rested body is more efficient and productive.

5. When you rest, your energy by its own power will start to renew. It's like changing clothes. You need to choose, choose and choose your clothes according to the environment and match your portfolio.

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7. Stress Reduction: Resting provides a break from the stresses and demands of daily life. It allows your mind to unwind, reducing stress levels. Activities like meditation, deep breathing, or simply taking a leisurely walk can have a calming effect on the mind.

8. some people can work better under stress and give results. But are you the one of these categories of people? You can read this which means you can do search on the internet. See what kind of sacrifice they contributed in comparison to their inner peace at the end of their life. Steve Jobs's story might tell you some of this outcome. He is a great person to learn from. Most of us are not.

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10. Enhanced Cognitive Function: Adequate rest is crucial for cognitive function. It improves memory, concentration, and problem-solving skills. Lack of rest can lead to cognitive fatigue and decreased mental sharpness.

11. We all need to use our thought thinking process to excel. Whether you are an artist or not, you are one who colors your own life. What will be that color if you are unable to have this function? Then what of use will you be to yourself, your family, your community and the world at large?

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13. Emotional Stability: Resting helps stabilize emotions. Sleep, in particular, is essential for regulating mood and managing emotions. When well-rested, you're better equipped to handle emotional challenges and maintain a positive outlook.

14. Rest gives you the space to be yourself and also have the power to address your emotional situation.

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16. Physical Performance: Athletes often emphasize the importance of rest and recovery in their training routines. Rest days are essential for preventing overtraining and injuries while allowing muscles to grow and become stronger.

17. Rest allows you to walk into any place with confidence and you simply shine even you did not utter a word.

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19. Creativity and Inspiration: Rest can also spark creativity and inspiration. Taking a break from a problem or project can lead to new ideas and perspectives when you return to it with fresh eyes and a rested mind.

20. Your ability to deliver your best is needed and that have to be different as promptly as possible. Rest helps you to have a clarity in their decisions.

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22. Long-Term Health: Consistently getting enough rest is associated with a reduced risk of chronic health conditions like heart disease, diabetes, and obesity. It supports a healthy immune system and can contribute to a longer, healthier life.

23. Resting will help everyone to walk an extra mile with purpose. What is life when you keep forging ahead without time to rest.

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25. Social and Relationship Benefits: Rested individuals tend to be more patient, understanding, and empathetic. This can lead to better communication and more harmonious relationships with family, friends, and colleagues.

26. If you need a reason to rest, choose this to reconnect to yourself, family, friends and the universe.

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28. Overall Well-Being: Resting is an integral part of maintaining a balanced and fulfilling life. It allows you to enjoy your leisure time, pursue hobbies and interests, and find meaning beyond work or daily responsibilities.

29. Last but not less, remember you are a pure flesh and blood human being. You need rest to being in your best.

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It's essential to prioritize rest in your daily routine. This may involve setting boundaries around work, establishing a consistent sleep schedule, and engaging in relaxation techniques. By doing so, you can reap the numerous physical and mental health benefits that come with proper rest and rejuvenation.

You always have a choice. I used mine by asking help from the search engines.

As mentioned above, I am a Professional Coach helping those who needs to color their life with your own values.

You are welcome to email to me at peggyang868@gmail.com for a free 15minutes chat on how to bring colors to your life.

THE IAC COACHING MASTERIES™ - Number Two

 This is a summary that is useful for those who are unsure about the process and who it is for. These masteries are copied and simplified by me for common knowledge. I have use "I' as these are the process I use to assist my clients to achieve their successes in life. 

Coaches go through tremendous amount of breakthrough in order to be at their best for their clients. It is also through this kind of process that they can help you to discover what you wanted. 

Therefore please give everyone who coached you a chance to help yourself including me. 

2. Perceiving, affirming and expanding the client’s potential.  There are time the client are unable to see their own values in life. They just flow along the road and doing what they think best even though they know that they are better than what meets the eyes. This is the part we deep dive into that value(s)helps.

Definition 

Recognizes and help the client acknowledge and appreciate his or her strengths and potential. Everyone needs some kind of motivation to affirm their belief. Most of the time beliefs come from everywhere and everyone else but not themselves. This will give client a reason to calmly accept their own values and take charge of it.

Effect

1. The client has a greater appreciation of personal capabilities and potential. This happen when the client see what they have in their conscious mind is not the full picture of the situations. It is just something that was filtered along the way and it is not the full values.

2. The client is more willing to take actions beyond current paradigms or strategies. Clarity will help the client understand their own strength and empower them to take actions.

Key Elements

1. Listen with empathy therefore the client are always calm and focus.

2. Recognizing a wider range of possibilities- the coach and the client will work together in search of what is their main objective. Most of the time, the topic which client wanted is just the surface needs because s/he does not know how to translate that feelings and emotions into words.  

3. Encouraging and empowering the client. With that, client will have the will power to move ahead but a coach needs to anchor on s/he intention and then reinforce s/he commitment.

 4. Challenging limiting beliefs. This are the unspoken so call truth that they believe. These kind of beliefs was cemented by the daily activities. Think of one of your limiting belief and evaluate it . Is it really who you are?

5. Recognizing strengths of client and awareness of where strengths support personal and organizational goals (where appropriate). Again clarity in the coaching conversation show client that they can achieve what they wanted but they are the one who need to make this choices.

It is never easy for people to open up to coaching because it is a common myth that coaching is for people who are in trouble. The fact is these are some common characteristics that show and proven coaching is the tools for success.

• Adapting behavior
• Changing careers
• Developing skills
• Improving job performance
• Increasing positivity
• Problem-solving techniques
• Setting goals
• Receiving a promotion

Remember, you always have a choice. What is your thought now?

If you need to find out more, feel free to email me at peggyang@outlook.com for a 15minutes free chat on Color your life through conversation with Coach Peggy Ang.