Friendship

 I have the opportunity of residing in a lovely neighborhood. When I first shifted here, everyone is young and having young children. After 20 odd years, the children are now all adults. Cars for each family began to increase and the parking space became scarce. If you have four children, then you have min 5 cars. One house can take in at most 4 cars. Another car will be at the road side. Each house share one lot, macam ni matilah. Good neighbors is every important. 

Now, what will be your solutions.

1. Don't buy car?

2. Share parking lots or fight one?

3 car pool?

*This was done but not successful. Let's hope after pandemic it will be successful because more people WFH.

The other alternative is to engage a company that can install double decker parking bays. This will increase the parking bays for each house to at least 4 if you are living in a smaller house and 8 if you are living in a bigger house.

If this can be done in bulk then the price will be super cool right? But what will our government initiatives on this or are they really concern to help.

mmmmmmmmmm.................................... no answer yet.

Self Coaching.

Self Coaching

The value of being yourself when no one is there for you

Time flies when I am having fun. Fun in finding out what I don't like and what I like. Was I wrong in making decision or right? This is another Billion dollars questions.

Now let me ask you, have you ever have it in your gut that you are 100% right? If you have, congratulations and everything should be flowing your way. I make very good decisions but I cannot control the outcome and I wanted to control that. It is indeed a wrong choice. But.........I learned again to let go. I just do what I can, that is defend my decisions and let go of the needs. It is really to good to have this choice.

Give it a go if you are stuck in the same position as mine.

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Courtesy of: http://www.dianechinn.com/2018/02/16/noodle-on-this-can-people-trust-you/

Europe I am coming.

 Don't Trust ME, Trust YOURSELF.

First thing first:-
Whether I like it or not, the time will keep ticking on. Vaccination is compulsory for travel to be possible. Dying is the other alternative which nobody can control, therefore this is not a point for consideration.
Second thing:-
Plan your trip with me. I am embarking on the road map learning the places to visit.
Adventure journey :-
Minimum 30 days, Maximum 90 days(given by respective country that I am visiting)
Budget:-
Enough to learn the real life of traveling without baggage.
Target:-
Look at the map and start planning. 1st Stop Schiphol Airport. http://www.linkedin.com/in/peggy-ang-a8247372

What is your world like?

In this world of dogs eat dogs, many things remain unclear.

Therefore to be actually enjoying trust and peace, LOOK INTO YOURSELF. Most of the time, we think and act differently to suit the situation. This created a very "fake"  world for many.

If you look back, how will you survive if you did not do what you need to do instead of what you want to do? What will be your choice then and what is your choice now.

Who will be there for you if you are one who lie through your teeth to get what you wanted to achieve. This pandemic gives us a lot of opportunities to look at "the polisher" and also the "polished".

Those who are not doing either it is what I call "ME". You might not be successful yet but you will. Please be genuine and find out what is in YOU that needs investing on.https://twitter.com/peggyang8682

You control the FUTURE

 Discover, Reinvent, SUCCEED.

In the era of pandemic, many people are caught off guard. I am also in the same boat. Luckily, I am blessed with enough. There was a sharing in whatsapp about the train ride? It is a very meaningful posting which I am re-sharing. Thank you John A. Passaro & many friends that repost it when I needed it most.

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/979577-life-is-like-a-train-ride-the-passengers-on-the

This is part of the reason I decided to touch on the above topic. We thought we know everything because we have been in the worst and think that everyone should also know it. Technology open our eyes to the fact that things are not what it seems to be. In one of the webinar from Sadhguru, I am extremely surprised that the weight of coronavirus weightage is less than 1gm(at the time a few months back). Furthermore , there are about 170(no exact number given) medical report daily and still it is a mystery to all.

Therefore, why put all effort into the basket of unknown. What is crucial is discover what can help us to reinvent the future and succeed accordingly.

The beautiful part of this pandemic is "EVERYONE is at the same STAGE". You will SUCCEED when you decided the script.

You control the future.

Good luck and stay healthy.

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Perception

It is funny how things turn out when your good intention are twisted when the "newspaper" related it without knowing the core of the intention(s). In a working environment, everyone groan. Some grown out of frustration of not knowing ,others groan out of knowing but not understanding and so on.

One thing I learned is that not everyone is the same. No matter how good your intention is the person(s) concerned still need to be guide. In some corporation, they will throw you to the wolves while some corporation throw the head into the wolves. It is interesting to see the flow of communication is kept clear though the intention is not. Setting and explaining the objective again is another task that I have to undertake. When things are rosy, power struggle become the issues of who is more important. To me ,the team is the most important entity. Education means forcing and breaking the norm because each task will require the said person to break their normal learning pattern. However, it is again not something that anyone will understand and matter make it worst nobody dare to ask. Some said because they do not know how to present their problem of not knowing while others might not even know how to start asking. I am tackling this issues because of needs to ensure that they survive no matter where they are. But it is not the general consensus and things are blown out of proportion.

Therefore, knowing something does not make me an expert in delivering it wholeheartedly but it taught me a lesson. That wagging tongues are only coming from people who do not understand and don't want to learn.

Effective coaching

Do not ever do a coaching session during friends meet. Its not effective and phone calls will disturb the flow.
Always refuse the request for immediate coaching if the folllwing is not adhere to.
1. Phone must be off all calls.
2. Must have full attention for 1 hour reserved
3. Disturbance must not appear whtr the waiter or who also cannot interupt
4. Must be able to leave after that
Onlg if this is done then can start the coaching session otherwise dont't do it
I learned my mistakes.
Cheers to all coaches.