Awakening Your Worth #AYW -3Rs

 

Awakening Your Worth: A Journey Beyond Structure

19th August 2025

Sometimes, life asks us to throw the SOPs out the window. To stop clinging to old systems and instead, step into the unknown — into possibility.

Recently, Jessie Lee pointed out that my tarot card reflects structure in one of the lesson she taught. This resonates deeply with my #Bazi chart, which shows that structure is indeed central to my life. And yes, structure has served me. But here’s the paradox: not all structures are good for me.

I’ve lived inside rigid frameworks until they overwhelmed me. Then, I broke through. I decided to stop forcing myself into shapes that didn’t fit, and instead, simply be here with you. In the moment. Not waiting for miracles, but creating possibilities.

But here’s the truth: when we abandon one structure, we don’t dissolve into chaos. We step into another structure — a new one, designed with more awareness. It’s not the absence of structure, but the birth of a structure that serves the soul.

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The Train of Awakening

As I passionately share about awakening your worth, I’ve also been awakened by your comments. This isn’t just a series of talks. It’s a train — constantly moving forward.

Sometimes, you’ll hop off to explore. But your unconscious mind, that inner universe, will keep nudging you with questions as you grow older. Different seasons of life call for different solutions. Sometimes new ones, sometimes simply the right solution for the moment.

In my own coaching journey, I hopped on and off many times. And eventually, I discovered something powerful: nothingness is oneness.

What I share here isn’t about chasing perfection. It’s about preparing you for the life you want. Facing chaos with courage. Falling, brushing off the dust, and rising again.

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The Power of Coaching & the 3Rs

This is where the IAC 9 Masteries become so powerful when you awaken. They guide us back to trust, clarity, and resilience.

Let me share just three of coaching results with you — what I call the 3Rs:

🌱 Realisation – Awakens your awareness.
🔄 Reboot – Resets your direction.
⚡ Recharge – Fuels your transformation.

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Anchoring in Trust

From the IAC Masteries, here’s one that has always anchored me:

1. Establishing and Maintaining a Relationship of Trust (建⽴及維持互信的關係)
Trust is the foundation of all transformation. Without trust, no structure holds. With trust, even chaos becomes an opening into possibility.

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✨ This is the path of awakening your worth. It isn’t about tearing down everything you’ve built, but about reshaping it — with courage, with compassion, and with trust.

Awakening Your Worth #AYW Day 16 : 5 Possible Mistakes

I’m human—and I’m learning to live that fully. “Good/bad,” “right/wrong”—so much of that is just the imprint of how we were raised.

Many people assume love means protecting others from growing pains—wrapping them in silk and hoping they’ll bloom. But is that real love? Or is it fear dressed up as care?

I’ve had to unlearn this with my daughter. For her first 10 years, I did what I knew. Then I woke up. At the time I couldn’t name it; I only knew I was searching. That search got real after two mental-health traumas. I’m grateful I survived—and I’m grateful they woke me.

That’s why I share my work so openly: coaching, BaZi intelligence, oracle readings, and—most importantly—my life stories. If you’re on TikTok, I’m at @peggyang57.

Today is Day 16 of Awakening Your Worth (#AYW). We’re closing the week with 5 possible mistakes that delay your awakening. The ideas are mine; I used AI to polish the English so more people can receive the message.

Over Days 12–15, we covered: Values → Realities → Character Moves → Blessings. Now, let’s talk about what trips us up.

Let’s be honest: we all make mistakes. Most of us were trained not to own them—out of ego, fear, or “reputation.” In my life, owning mistakes is non-negotiable. They’re not proof of failure; they’re tuition. Acknowledging them is how I grow stronger, wiser, kinder.

This week, our live session reached 11.1K views on TikTok. I’m deeply grateful to everyone who dropped by. Some stayed, some left. Either way, I trust each person caught a small taste of their worth. With 8.23 billion people on earth, there are still so many hearts to reach—and I’m just getting started.

5 Mistakes That Delay Awakening Your Worth

1. Not Owning the Process
   Waiting for validation or a push instead of driving your own growth.

2. Skipping Shadow Work
   Avoiding discomfort where the real breakthroughs hide.

3. Over-relying on External Blessings
   Expecting the Nobleman or Heaven to do the heavy lifting while neglecting your human 7%.

4. Mismanaging Emotions
   Letting frustration or low mood block the flow of blessings and self-worth.

5. Stopping After a Setback
   Treating challenges as a “sign to quit” instead of a cue to adjust and continue.

Children of the universe—walk with me. Like, comment, and share so this message finds the ones who need it. If today landed for you, don’t keep it in your drafts; act on it.

Go deeper with me: For coaching or a BaZi reading, email peggyang868@gmail.com with the subject “AWAKEN”.

Finally, I need your help.

 Follow @peggyang57 on TikTok and tap the ♡ so the algorithm sends this to more people who need it.

Awakening Your Worth #AYW Day 14 5 Character Building Moves

 This is the topic I shared on my tiktok live under @peggyang57

It will be clearer if you watch my live sharing. So far, I managed to go live on #tiktok daily at 10am.

If you missed them,, just search me out when there is a calling. Nothing needs to be urgent until you feel the needs to click for me. It is something that your unconscious is asking you to do. Asking you to pay attention to your worth.

I speak to your unconscious mind of which you control. You are holding the remote control therefore be comfortable when you listen to my sharing.

This is what I done yesterday.

Day 14: 5 Character-Building Moves 

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1. Unconscious Act

• Automatic habits – what you do without thinking
• Conditioning – patterns shaped by past experiences
• Triggers – situations that activate them
• Blind spots – things you don’t see but others do
• Awareness – first step to change

2. Conscious Alignment with Unconscious

• Integration – bring hidden patterns into the light
• Mindfulness – catching yourself in the act
• Reprogramming – replacing old scripts
• Consistency – practice until it becomes natural
• Harmony – conscious + unconscious in sync

3. Law of Attraction

• Focus – where your attention goes, energy flows
• Belief – you receive what you expect
• Emotion – feelings magnetize your reality
• Visualization – see it before you live it
• Action – attraction works better when you move

4. Murphy’s Law

• Preparation – if it can go wrong, be ready
• Flexibility – adapt when plans change
• Perspective – laugh when life surprises you
• Problem-solving – focus on solutions, not blame
• Resilience – bounce back fast

5. Law of Reaction

• Pause – choose before responding
• Control – own your emotions, not the other way
• Cause-and-effect – every reaction creates a ripple
• Power – calm is strength, chaos is weakness
• Growth – learn from what triggers you

All I need to do is to be awakened in my own worth and the children of the universe will also have their own worth awakened. It's not easy, but it is definitely worth it.

You are the enemy of your own worth. The outside world is just a holocaust of the inner world. As Carl Jung said Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.

Let's change our fate together for the betterment of ourselves. Why? Because we are all priceless,.

Awakening Your Worth . #AYW Day 15 - 5 types of blessings.

 

Day 15: 5 Types of Blessings  

These are all my thoughts on day 15. The whole story and sharing is on my tiktok @peggyang57 . it is extremely difficult to understand. Therefore go to my page , like and share. May the energy of the universe helps you accelarate your growth from inner universe and let you live a life full of passion. 

1. Nobleman – Good or Bad

• Definition – a person who appears to help or teach you

• Dual nature – can be pleasant or tough-love types

• Mindset – don’t cling or depend fully

• Gratitude – every encounter shapes you

• Lesson – blessing isn’t always sugar-coated

2. 3% Heaven, 7% Human Intervention

• Heaven (3%) – destiny, luck, timing

• Human (7%) – choices, actions, relationships

• Control – you can’t change Heaven’s timing, but you can upgrade your readiness

• Responsibility – own the 7%, don’t complain about the 3%

• Synergy – work with both, not against either

3. Where Are You in This Cycle of Blessings?

• Receiving – doors opening, help arriving

• Giving – being someone’s Nobleman

• Transition – waiting, learning, preparing

• Blockage – resisting help or refusing to help

• Flow – blessings come and go in cycles

4. Drawing of These Blessings

• Action – you attract what you prepare for

• Clarity – know what you need, not just what you want

• Signals – show up where blessings can find you

• Energy – high vibration draws better quality help

• Openness – receive without suspicion

5. Your Emotions – Where Do They Stand?

• Filter – emotions affect how you see blessings

• Blocker – resentment, bitterness can close the door

• Amplifier – gratitude and joy multiply blessings

• Awareness – catch yourself in emotional dips

• Reset – regulate before responding

You are your own boss and you are also your own enemy. There are no wrong or right, no good or bad- just something you need to understand from the unconscious mind and let that build your own world of worth.

Good luck.

Awakening Your Worth - Day 13 : 5 life realities

 Today is the 13th day that I spend on sharing live on Tiktok which evolve around my knowledge as an IAC Masteries Practitioner, Bazi practitioner, NLP Coach and my life story. 

I am unscripted therefore, I share based on the keywords that I have prepared before hand. Life is pretty amazing ya. We are all children of the universe. By noticing that each have their own capabilities to explore the inner universe, first we need to listen. 

I don't listen to listen- that was me before this. It is the ego that give me this trait of being one until my own breakthrough that I live for myself and think for myself. This is also why I am passionate about sharing my story. It is not for you, it is selfishly for me and I hope you have get something from my live posting. 

No script simply means I follow the energy of the room. It do not make magic happened, I am perfecting my moment so that you as the viewers get values in return.

I have not plan any packages to promote on awakening your worth tapping into self-worth since my hours are all spend in collaborating with the moment. Accessing to the information externally while tapping into the possibilities of self-worth recovery for those who attended for themselves. 

Incredibily the number of viewers are extraordinary, it climbed to 8792 viewers within 28 days. I keep reminding myself that I am doing this so that the children of universe can grow purposefully and energetically so that they too become someone who can lend a hand.

With a populations of 8.23billion of which 5.24billion are on social media(this was the statistic from this morning 12th Aug 2025) , the space for growth is so vast. Let's contribute to the betterment of the world by having small habit like sharing my live and liking my page. In all honesty, I only know that #tiktok reward users for ability to garner certain number of viewer. I do not know what are the reward but I am sure to share with you if I see any.

I am thankful to all the viewers for staying on for more than 12second. I congratulate you for taking this extra second to find out whether I have anything to offer. Finding clarity, this is what I respect in you too.

To keep the page for reader who like to read instead of listen, then this is the recap for today's sharing.

"Some people live their whole life without ever meeting themselves. Today, we’re not doing that. Today, we face the five realities that either hide your worth… or help you reclaim it."

 

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1.    You Are Not a Puppet

"Cut the strings. You choose, you move, you speak. Stop letting unseen hands decide your life’s script."

"But sometimes… even with the strings gone, we still stay in the dark."

• Free will – you choose, not the strings
• Autonomy – own your voice, your moves
• Awareness – see who/what is pulling the strings
• Boundaries – cut the cords that don’t serve you
• Empowerment – step into your role as creator

2.    You Are Living in the Shadow

"We hide parts of ourselves thinking it’s protection. But shadows aren’t safe zones — they’re just unlit prisons."

 "And while hiding, we start wearing something else — a mask."

 

• Unseen self – the parts you hide or ignore
• Fear – of judgment, failure, or rejection
• Limiting beliefs – old scripts from the past
• Avoidance – staying small to feel safe
• Self-reflection – shine light on the hidden corners

3.    The Social Mask Philosophy

"We play roles. We smile when we’re breaking. We act strong when we’re tired. But every mask adds weight — and one day, you forget the face underneath."

 "So how do you break free from the strings, the shadows, and the masks? You take action."

 Facade – who you present vs. who you are

• Conformity – fitting in to be accepted
• Performance – constant “acting” for approval
• Exhaustion – mask-wearing drains your soul
• Authenticity – the courage to take it off

4. Take Action to Break – Your Strength

"Strength isn’t something you wait for. It’s something you build. Small steps, scary steps, stubborn steps — that’s how you break what’s been holding you."

"And once you break free… you don’t just survive. You live."

 

• Decision – choose change over comfort
• Courage – act even when scared
• Resilience – bounce back when it’s messy
• Skills – build what you need to move forward
• Momentum – small steps become breakthroughs

5.    Live Life Full

"Be here. Say yes. Laugh loud. Give much. Love hard. Life’s too short to play small in your own story."

 

• Presence – be here, fully
• Gratitude – for the now, not just the someday
• Joy – do what lights you up
• Contribution – give, connect, impact
• Adventure – say yes more often

"Your worth was never lost — it was just hidden behind strings, shadows, and masks. Today, you’ve got the scissors, the light, and the courage to step out. Use them."

YOU are always the best when you become the authentic self. LOVE yourself more and you might understand what makes me do what I do-coach, guide and enlighten. For those who are already on this path, please help to share your experiences and let others have some hope in their life.

Thank you very much and my gratitude to all your support.

Awakening Your Worth - AYW Day 12 - 5 of your Values

 Values are not just for the other to know but for you to reinstate. Your value will be your compass in life and guide you towards a betterment according to your own action and decision. They are the reason, you become what you wanted and also the pillar for destruction or growth. Either way, you need to address these with tender loving care.

1. Your Life - claim ownership. 

•   Ownership – it’s yours, not a borrowed script
•   Purpose – knowing your “why”
•   Seasons – every phase has its lesson
•   Choices – freedom with responsibility
•   Legacy – what you leave behind

2. Character

Be the person that your future will thank you for. Build a character based on your authenticity and flow from inside out.

Doing and performing are special. Irregardless of the outcome, build your accountability and strive for excellence because you can.

•  Integrity – do what you said you’d do, even when no one’s watching
•  Resilience – bounce back, not break down
•  Humility – strength without the flex
•  Consistency – same values, rain or shine
•  Trustworthiness – earning belief, not demanding it

 3. Heavenly Blessings

Catch the blessings and be in the moment. Things that you cannot change, let it go. Embrace the 3% of heavenly gift and expand the horizon. Here are some methods that you might want to consider.

•  Gratitude – daily noticing of the unseen gifts
•  Alignment – living in sync with the flow of Heaven & Earth
•  Protection – unseen hands guiding and guarding
•  Provision – what you need always arrives, in some form
•  Faith – belief even when logic blinks

4. Attitude
This is the foundation of expression. You might not notice it but the way you express yourself are felt though you might not even utter a word yet. Attitude is as important and your breathe. It's a silent killer and healer. It depends on how you use it to reinforce your values.

This weapon can anchor you into your inner universe and help you to glow. Think about this and what you have done before. It might give you some ideas from now on.

• Positivite – seeing possibilities, not just problems
• Openness – willing to listen, learn, and adjust
• Discipline – keeping the course when the hype fades
• Respect – towards self and others
• Courage – acting despite fear

 5. Self-Worth Reinstatement

Reminder: this is what I hope to see which is your ability to keep reinforcing yourself to a place that nobody can rob. You are shining in the dark for yourself and sharing the light from within. Keep going. But if you still on the path, these are some actions that you might want to apply.

• "Stop renting your value to others. Move back in and renovate. Your worth was never gone — it was just waiting for you to reclaim the keys."Awareness – knowing where you lost your worth
• Boundaries – the gates that keep your garden safe
• Forgiveness – releasing what keeps you small
• Reclaiming – speaking and living your worth again
• Flourish – not just surviving, but thriving

"So today, guard your life, sharpen your character, receive your blessings, protect your attitude, and own your worth. Because if you don’t… someone else will."

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AYW- A pause

 #masteringourdestiny

I have been sharing about AYW- Awakening Your Worth as part of my self-worth series. It was planned for 30days consecutively on live FB and TIKTOK @peggyang57.

Yesterday, I received a call that 6 days is way too much to absorb a change for people who are just waking up to the fact that they are possible. Therefore at the very last moment, I decided to put a pause.

If you are interested to know more, you are welcome to pm me or just hop into my page for past live posting.

Today, being a Sunday, a day when the universe's energy also allows for rest, I decided to do something different. An oracle card reading live posting while drawing a card from my deck.

What is Oracle reading to you might be different usage for me. For me, it is a trigger of thoughts that is anchor on my focus. Where I need to progress and how I am going to do it can be clearly seen from here.

Oracle deck are intuitive and borderless for divination.

It is the mirror that I might want to see.

Having done it correctly, I normally can see the following:-

Patter - what kind of path have I chosen and how I am going to choose now.

Emotional truth - if I do not love myself, I have only exchange it with love package in a version that I want.

Beliefs are cultivation and evolutions over time. What is right might not be right for now.

Message that I felt but I still need to see.

How many of you out there are as human as me. That you are facing challenges that sound like obstacles. 

Either way, the tools that I am passionately encouraging you to use is Bazi aka Metaphysic or Coaching combine with Oracle Card reading.

If you find this interest, hope on my band wagon and let your self-worth reinforce itself.

WE CAN AND WE WILL BE AT OUR BEST.