Heavenly Pardon Day

 Since today is heavenly pardon day, I seek forgiveness if I have invoke intentionally or unintentionally in my articles. It is purely my sharing of experiences and it might invoke some pain to people who were somehow affected by my sharing.

Well! the secret of my success is not knowing what is success to me. To me it is a sin since I have such a beautiful gift that I call life. Learning to appreciate it is not something easy when all the emotion are outsourced. I used to think that, to love someone is the greatest gift ever. Then I discover that this is not true. By loving them unconditionally, I have cocoon them into dependency and lack of drive to proceed. I only realised that to love unconditionally, one have to start loving yourself. Not selfish kind of love but a pure respect kind of love. Through this kind of practices only, one can share love because of the abundance. It will only grow within and embrace others. If you have not notice it yet, then it is good to give it a chance to grow.

In the day to day life, decisions are made to accommodate many needs. While it is done in the best interest, sometime it just does not turn out right. What makes me say this? It is because a simple message of “Don’t worry” can be translated into an insult even though it is being said with sincerity without any malice. This is exactly why disagreement erupted. And I learned again.

What is your experience on this? Have you ever been blamed for words or actions that you have taken sincerely in the intention of helping and got back fired? Does this stop you from doing the same good deeds again? As for me, I will not stop doing what I think right but I will use coaching questions to ensure that it does translate good intention as a giver.

Give more and you will see.

www.3secsoulution.com visit me if you have time. Coaching is the best tools to communicate in peace.

Coaching Rocks

 

I decided that my past experiences are unavoidable and it only will cause more harm than good. When I join @https://www.soleiltrinity.com/founder in her free courses, I immediately know what I am missing. I have the opportunity of attending her free courses about 5 years ago. At that time, I just go for the sake of knowing something about fungshui. During that time, I was not ready to see and rescue myself from that situations. Maybe. at that time her courses was also mostly on fungshui.

However, life take a turn with the pandemic. I began to see life differently. When a good friend pass away, his words engraved in my mind. He said “ Before you die, LIVE” .I start to ask the questions on many things that I dare not ask before. I thought that what is gone is forever gone. Walao! (Chinese experiences of amazement in a different tone), what I have missed. Thankfully, she came out to give many more free courses with insight into what I was thinking. Is it a miracle happening or is it just pure law of attractions.

The other reason could be the coaching that I had and the coaching that I am conducting for many people. Finally, I decided to open up the dark secret of my life. Some just do not know how to accept that I went through so much and remain strong. In fact, I am also giving myself a dress down on what have I done if I know it earlier. But, some things are meant to happen at certain time of your life. Mine did. I saw it as my way of showing the world that no matter what happened I can survive the test. Time will determine the outcome.

From then on, I passionately involved in any coaching sessions that is available. If I can help one, it is my way of thanking the past for what they have given me. A courage to be different. A place for others to fall back on by reading my story.

Is there any regret? I used to have that but now it is no longer a regret. Like Captain Shan of https://teamcoach.com.my/ reminded us, as coach we are here to help people find the solution in chaos. We are all in this situation somehow or rather.

Do you know what is the reward I love most in coaching? That the participants sparkle with enthusiasm when they found their ah-ah moment. In one coaching session, my coachee’s most wonderful respond when we meet for coaching was this:-

“After two sessions with you, I know that no matter what the problems are, I am sure to have some solutions. The other beauty of coaching is, I start to use good questioning to get some answer.”

I am sure for those coaches out there, this is one thing that makes you motivated towards coaching. I did.

My value in life is to see a community of people using coaching culture as their daily conversation. It is always a rewarding conversation with impactful results even though you are having an disagreement. If I can change a toxic environment to a platform of understanding then we will all have more talents who passionately delivery their ability without fear of failure.

If I can do it, you can do it too.

You are welcome to visit me on my Linkedin @https://www.linkedin.com/in/peggyang8682 

my website @https://3secsoulutioncoach.godaddysites.com/

@https://medium.com/@peggyang868

More from Peggy Ang

Coaching Values to ME

 If you have to dream , then work at your dream. In Mandarin "梦想“ (pronounce as Meng Xiang ). To me it means , I have a dream that I must realized. Dreams teach me a lot because it is me making decisions internally. The trick is to know your dreams translation.

This bring me to topic of not knowing what and how to effectively execute my personal social media. The main reason lie in me. I do social media posting to encourage and motivate people including myself. It is my hope that through the many posting, someone can seek me out to support them using the coaching methods. On the other hand, it will also be beneficial to me. The issues arises from the acceptance level of people on coaching. I will share with you my fear of coaching even now and how I solve them.

1. Ego journey - I believe I am an egoist by practice. Now I keep throwing out by ego whenever possible and that open up the flow to limitless possibilities.

2. Fear of wrong - in my culture being wrong is such an embarrassment. Now I just apologize and be wrong with questioning method.

3. I like to talk more than listen - scare nobody let me talk. hahaha!!!  I changed this by learning to listen more than talk. Still practicing la .Silent is golden.

4. Judge by others - poor,rich, clever, dim, pretty, ugly, snooty, arrogance and the list go on. I learn to let myself go by letting the judgement go. If I have to live in the life people mold me then I will not have my life back. The solution, do what I feel appropriate and appreciate the comments.

5. Culture - I am taught to keep all my feelings, dissatisfaction, helplessness etc as a secret because people will use this as weapons. How I wish? what you think I did on this?

there are more but the fundamental of it are these 5 big issues which I am ironing them out gradually.

A habit is not change if we do not do it regularly. Therefore, I keep doing it and learn from the experience how coaching can help me while I help others.

Look for me if I have any opportunity of sharing experience with you.

 

Passive actively Prosper.

 

Dare to be different? Dare to fail again? Dare to walk out and face risks? All these were my failure factors because I only dare to do it internally. I am lucky to be rescue by situation and 贵人(mentor in life) that make me who I am today. A persons that defy the law of not being normal. Facing the pandemic, holding on to a job is solutions to most. But I decided to let go of a good job and jump into something waiting for me . For the past 5 years, I have been too busy to explore my life and my finances. Pandemic give me the reason and the values of risk empowerment. Why I said risk empowerment? It is because I went into the investment with my eyes open and my brain working. I have evaluated. I like you to check your kitty and see whether you have achieve the following :-

1. risk % is yours to manage.

2. 3% and above profit sharing every 5 weeks in comparison FD only give 1.5% every 1 month and you have to be tie down with an amount.

3. Liquidity

4. 24/7 sharing available

5. most importantly, you earn your money legally and do not need to have friends disappearing when they see you.

If you are interested and are in control of your money, then feel free to contact me. Otherwise just see whatelse you can do with growing your kitty to an international status. Good luck.

Time to grow

 How often we do things that we love? How will you decide when to do it? When you have done those things that you love, what will grow for you?

As for me, I have the chance to explore the world(virtually) thankfully I saw the vast opportunity the lockdown caused. Without the need to travel and wasted time in the traffic, it gives me more time to myself.  It is bad and good at the same time. hahaha!!! you think that you can enjoy things and then you noticed that it is just a dream fulfilled so easily. Then I move on to discover things and activities that I have never do before like muay thai , archery, art jamming and the list goes on. This is how I handle my lockdown so that I can see what to bring to tourism when we are open for tourism. How are you handling this change to the new

Attending Virtual PATA Annual Summit 2021 indeed is good way to look future traveling pattern. Countries are rushing up to get everything ready to welcome tourists and have a foot into the SDG. Solutions, to me is to have a joint efforts in ensuring safety Covid 19 travelers. If I am to travel for leisure, I want to know that in the event I was infected, what will the country of travel do for me. I have not seen any country putting an effort into ensuring the safety of tourists. Well! Not yet. Time is crucial when pandemic like this is not going away.

Should we hide and cry or go out fight and fight? It is all about countries joint effort.

我的人生的故事

 当我走上人生的道路时，我遇到了很多未知的事物。我正在寻找某种东西，而某些东西总是在变化。可能是因为我没有理由坚持，但因为它充满了我的人生旅程。 ！我喜欢做很多事情，并且喜欢每一件事，直到持续下去。之后，我让自己继续前进。现在回想起来，我成功地设计了许多公司，但是当我离开时，它们都倒闭了。问题在于所有老板都很友好，以至于他们只依靠我来建立业务。没有继任计划，因为他们认为我会永远存在。没有额外的财务支持，因为他们希望我继续挖掘金山，并且无需扩展。扩张需要时间和投资。因此，我被尽最大可能使用传统方法来管理我所拥有的一切。所以当我决定放弃并辞职时。他们刚刚关闭了公司。可悲的是，但这就是人生的旅程。美丽的事物仍然必须结束。但是，美丽的友谊永远存在，为此，我感谢所有朋友，无论您身在何处。

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请原谅我的华文字体，传不是用Google　Translate　的。

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Friendship

 I have the opportunity of residing in a lovely neighborhood. When I first shifted here, everyone is young and having young children. After 20 odd years, the children are now all adults. Cars for each family began to increase and the parking space became scarce. If you have four children, then you have min 5 cars. One house can take in at most 4 cars. Another car will be at the road side. Each house share one lot, macam ni matilah. Good neighbors is every important. 

Now, what will be your solutions.

1. Don't buy car?

2. Share parking lots or fight one?

3 car pool?

*This was done but not successful. Let's hope after pandemic it will be successful because more people WFH.

The other alternative is to engage a company that can install double decker parking bays. This will increase the parking bays for each house to at least 4 if you are living in a smaller house and 8 if you are living in a bigger house.

If this can be done in bulk then the price will be super cool right? But what will our government initiatives on this or are they really concern to help.

mmmmmmmmmm.................................... no answer yet.